Great sex is sex that doesn’t consider everything outside of penis in vagina foreplay. Since you’re a smart and horny guy lucky enough to join a sexy couple in bed or hookup with two blonde babes at once, you already know this.
What you might not know is that for women, the handjob is a gold standard. For you guys, a handjob is usually about speed and convenience, or about not getting any farther that time.
For women, it’s not “better than nothing” but an essential sensual part of our pleasure. One thing I hear women lament when we get down to specific nitty-gritty sex talk is how a partner with the magic touch seems to lose it somewhere along the way from hooking up to becoming lovers.
In new relationships, you are dying to touch that pussy. You’re hyper conscious about her pleasure, so instinctively, you use your hands to take her to the brink.
Two words for you, baby: Don’t stop!
Since a threesome exponentially increases your chance of having more than one woman in your bed at a time, let your natural eagerness to touch her here, there, and everywhere play out. Relax and enjoy the sheer tactile thrill of her body, comparing and contrasting the shapes and responses of each woman.
Finger Fucking and Handjob Tips
Your hands and fingers have exquisite sensitivity and dexterity.
Never thought about it? Well, try playing piano or typing with your dick.
I love to feel your cock sliding into me. But for sheer variety of touches, for the most intricate pussy play, nothing beats the hand.
While you might understandably experience the handjob as more of an extension of jerking off—“I’ve got my own hands,” you might say—ours doesn’t work quite the same for masturbation. My hand can reach my vagina and rub my clit and enter my pussy, but the length and flexibility of my arms doesn’t give me the full experience that you can with yours.
Two hands are better than one.
Ever wonder why you have two hands? The sensory overload of stroking two different pussies at the same time, or penetrating each woman simultaneously, is intense. Your dick will give out or you’ll explode, so don’t rush in.
A common peeve guys have is coming too soon. In a threesome, you have double duty, but the extra stimulation tips you over before you know it. Buy time by letting your hands do the dirty work.
Alternately, you might be expecting a rock-hard erection given your level of horniness, but the novelty and pressure of the threesome has intimidated your cock and it won’t get hard. Stop thinking about it and use your hands. Problem solved.
Use your imagination.
Tease her to the brink by making good use of that dirty mind of yours. Stroke, pinch, pull, push, spank, smack, penetrate, spread, circle, caress—use one finger, two fingers, three.
Draw the alphabet on her labia if you’re impatient or not very creative—it will give you a good idea of some possibilities.
Variety rules, until she wants to come.
All this sensual exploration is heavenly, but when she’s ready to come, you’ll want to shift gears and provide the exact intensity and rhythm she needs. Let her show you.
And if she likes to be brought to the brink, time and time again, become a master at orgasm denial and edging.
Sit back and watch girl-on-girl handjobs.
In a threesome, the most exciting part for me is the opportunity to touch another woman. It’s thrilling when you watch me stroke and open her. It’s incredible to experience her body and running my hands all over it, playing with her breasts, then taking my time to touch her pussy with my mouth, breasts, and fingers. Oh, yes!
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