Every man I’ve had intimate relationships has experienced or admitted to having issues staying hard for prolonged periods of time. Another issue for many men is the need for an extended break before being able to get it up again.
In group experiences it can be even more challenging as the thrill of being with two ladies or a mix of the sexes is very high.
Women understand when things go sideways, but we also know that it can deflate a situation, feel embarrassing and disappointing for a guy as well. Here are a few tips that can help in your next group sex situation.
How to Extend Your Next Threesome
Get to Know Each Other
Part of the fun is the initial meeting and dialogue that comes before the action. If you are hosting a threesome, be sure to provide light snacks, drinks, and sexy music in the background. Flirtatious banter is a great way to start the evening, and it will also take the pressure off.
Plan a Sleepover
If you know there’s no time limit, you won’t feel rushed or have to plan your entry and exit per se. This also gives you the time and space to recover for round two, or enjoy a sexy morning romp before breakfast.
Keep Your Expectations Low
Performance anxiety is normal, especially in a group situation or with new partners you’ve only met online. Just like a one-on-one date, you don’t want to fantasize or build up what the encounter will be like. Go in with a positive attitude and open arms.
Avoid Masturbating Before
Many men avoid ejaculating before a sexy hookup because they claim that they can hold out longer and that the orgasm is more intense. This might not be true for some though, so learn what works for you when it comes to your body mechanics.
Take the Role of Voyeur
Whether you want to prolong your orgasm or have time in between that you need to get hard again, sitting on the sidelines can work wonders. You can watch, maybe even direct, two sexy ladies pleasing one another.
Go In Relaxed and Rested
Whenever I have a big event, whether that be a job interview or a threesome hookup, I have a routine that ensures I am at my best: an early night before, a trip to the gym, followed by a bath and chill music. Whatever it takes for you to go in feeling relaxed, do it.
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