Just the Tips

Tips for Sustaining a Regular Threesome

Sexy Brunette in Bed on Laptop

Holding together a regular threesome crew is like being in a band: good luck getting everyone together regularly, and better luck ensuring a player doesn’t quit to make different music.

Meet sexy singles and couples now at FindaThreesome.com!

The truth is the ABCs of maintaining a threesome group are pretty much the same those for regular sex (only multiplied).  

Play with people you like. If you wouldn’t want to go out for dinner with them, why on earth would you want to get naked with them? Likability goes a long way, and will make you more inclined to surrender yourself to suggestion.

Clearly communicate your interests. Let the others know the wheres and hows of turning you on and getting you off. If they give you what you’re asking for, you’re bound to want to get together again. (I’ve grouped with those who say nothing, and let me tell you, having to search for someone’s g-spot can be a bore.)

Clearly demonstrate your interests. Show them how it’s done, and where. Again, a team who knows how to satisfy each other will come back for more.

Indulge your partners’ interests. You’ve been given the lowdown—follow it. If you can deliver what’s expected of you, your future presence will subsequently be requested.

See the pattern? It’s not about lightning in a bottle, but being in sync. Laying the groundwork for communication is a craft; once everyone understands and practices each other’s desires, trust is established, allowing imagination and exploration to soar.

If you had to choose only one consideration from the list? Likability—hands down. Any time a partner and I have crossed a threesome buddy off the list it’s always been because the personalities didn’t jive.

Here’s the math:

Likability + Communication + Trust = Awesome Threesomes… and Repeat Performances!

If you’re getting what you want from those you like, you’ll want to see them again.

It sounds easy and it is. But remember it can take time to find that perfect match. When you do find it, hang on for dear life.

Go Team Go!

Tell us what you think!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Meet Ashburn Couples & Singles for Real Hookups at FindaThreesome.com
To Top