Sex on New Year’s Eve is not quite as certain as life’s only certainties—death and taxes—but it’s pretty close. Couples often plan on an extra special night of fireworks, and single women are on the prowl for hookups. No one wants to ring in the new year alone, and it’s a traditional night for a little adventure and debauchery.
Here’s how to make the most of yours and have a hot, sexy threesome or other fantasies come true.
Advance planning is your best strategy.
Spontaneity is hot as hell, but you can’t predict or plan it by its very nature, so you might leave the party disappointed if you don’t have a strategy in place. You might hope to meet horny besties who both want that midnight kiss with you, but hope is never a guarantee.
Rest assured, many married couples are looking ahead of time for a third, planning their big night. You want to get in on those options. Use online dating to find what you’re looking for. If you’re hoping to be part of a blazing threeway on New Year’s eve, say so in your messages.
Contact past hookup lovers.
Another kind of advance strategy that can be even more effective and fun is making party plans with a threesome you’ve already had. If you have booty-call friends that you love having group sex with, see if they’re into planning a hot night together.
The most successful threesome is always the one that’s already been working. Knowing you’ll be getting together for fun and then explosive pleasures means you’ll spend the party flirting, touching, and in hot anticipation of what comes after the clock strikes twelve.
Avoid hookups who have had way too much to drink.
On New Year’s Eve, most revelers give themselves permission to overdo it and really cut loose. This helps make the good riddance to this year a special occasion, and people having fun are less inhibited and also horny. This is all good news.
That said, you don’t want to double your trouble when you’re supposed to have two redheads going down on you. You don’t want to babysit anyone who had too much to drink, you don’t want to clean up any messes that night, or later on, if they have regrets.
Steer clear of any singles or couples who are overdoing it, and mingle with those who are having a great time, not pounding back the shots.
Don’t expect it to last.
No matter how intense the vibe is with the hottie(s) you encounter, don’t look for lasting love on New Year’s eve. And don’t lose your heart when you’re not looking. People are in a particular frame of mind, so be prepared for the fact that you may never hear from her or them again, even if it was a mind-bending all-nighter that you want to repeat.
Live and love in the moment. If it turns into another session later, great, but if it’s just tonight, well, there are worse ways to welcome in 2019.
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