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3 Threesome Mistakes to Avoid

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Want to maximize your chances of more threesomes? Just avoid these three pitfalls.

1. Don’t Forget Your Girlfriend Exists

It’s exciting when there’s a new pussy on the block. But if your girlfriend is the one consenting to, orchestrating, and indulging in threeways, she is probably a girl you want to keep. Don’t take her for granted.

You may think she already knows how much she means to you, and how much you love fucking her. Now that you’ve feasted on a pretty redhead together, you want to text, sext, and fantasize about said redhead all the time.

No way. Not if you want to do it again.

I’m your primary partner, not the gravy, and not the loyal pet mutt. If you want threesomes with me, you must make me feel central, treat me like the queen that I am, and make that very clear to every other girl we bring home.

2. Don’t Blow My Cover

It’s okay to tell your buddies you nailed a pair of sporty brunettes once upon a time. You can even spell out some of the dirty details. Just don’t ever, ever use specifics that might let anyone conclude who we are.

Even saying something like “two babes from the all-girls’ soccer time in Upton” might be a dead giveaway in a small town. Don’t do it.

It’s not safe for us. Some men get jealous even if they have no claim to me or what I do. You don’t want to put a woman in danger without meaning to.

Even if it’s totally safe, it’s no one’s business. Don’t risk her reputation when there are personal and professional factors you know nothing about.

3. Don’t Pester, Nag or Whine

I am a poly, kinky woman who loves threeways, anal, and tying people up. I don’t have a boyfriend—I have several, and a few girlfriends too.

But guess what? You’re not married to me. You’re HER girlfriend, and if she says no—no means no. Period.

I am all for you stating the case for threesomes or for other new sex adventures. But if she has stated her case clearly, and it’s a big fat no way, that’s the final word.

You have two choices: worship your goddess and forget about the rest of us, or leave the relationship.

You do not have the choice to whine and pester and nag. There is nothing LESS likely to make a girl warm up to bringing another woman home than hearing you moan about how deprived you are of other pussy.

I encourage women to expand their minds and get over insecurities or fears in order to experience more sex, more variety, more orgasm, more pleasure. But maybe your girlfriend has already been there, done that, and wants a one on one commitment now.

Maybe she’s a one-man woman, now and forever. 

Women feel more open to exploring their fantasies when they feel the man they’re with is the man of commitment, integrity, and maturity she thought he was, not some petulant, spoiled brat.

Have you made these mistakes? Tell us about how you made it right!

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