A young man I know told me recently about a hot threeway he and his girlfriend had been dreaming of, that it finally happened. Both were in college and barely twenty, eager to explore everyone’s favorite fantasy in real life.
Finding a unicorn proved difficult. Although some other college students responded to their dating profile, there was a lot of waffling back and forth. They did meet up with a hottie ready for the time of their lives, but the girl was so drunk that they called her a cab and went home without her.
One day, girlfriend Rachel had a flash of insight while looking at some cougar porn. She told young Michael that they should be looking for an older woman.
Rachel had had plenty of fantasies about older women and loved movies about the guy who falls in love with his friend’s mother or teacher, but she had never thought about it as a solution to their threesome fantasies.
Here’s why cougars work for couples of all ages looking for a third.
An older woman is sexually experienced.
It’s fun to fumble around with hot young things, but for sexually adventurous couples or those fortunate enough to have found the right person to explore kink or group fantasies with comfortably, finding a threesome partner who shares the same desires can be tricky.
Older women have been around the block. They know what gets them off. The only reason she’s responding to a message of interest in a threeway is because she wants to be part of one.
An older woman can take the lead in bed.
For Michael and Rachel, they were worried about how to act around the unattached unicorn and how to make her feel welcome and enjoy the sex. Because they weren’t experienced yet with group sex, they didn’t know how that would play out, who would do what first and where it would go.
It was a big relief and a major turn on when Liz made the first move. As they sipped Manhattans, she uncrossed her legs, leaned over, and began kissing Rachel. This on its own was such a huge turn on for Michael that he’s still jerking off over it!
Cougars don’t want or bring drama.
An older woman is a perfect third for a threesome. There are times when three strangers get together, when old friends fall into spontaneous threesomes, when bisexual women approach you and beg you to go home with them. But when you’re part of a couple wanting to explore bringing another sex partner in, it can be really difficult to avoid drama.
Where there is sex, there are emotions. Where there is a man, women can create drama. Where there are women, men can act like three year olds. The possibilities for fallout are endless.
Drama from an older, experienced woman is far less likely. An older woman isn’t there to boost her self-esteem, to unconsciously try to one-up the girlfriend, to impress you, or any other variable.
She’s there to get naked and get off.
Older women are a different kind of sexy.
There’s a reason “older women” are the subject of those movies mentioned above, and why “mature” or “cougar” are popular categories of porn.
There’s the archetype of the perfect ten older goddess. There’s also the milf next door, the divorced hottie, the horny housewife, and more. Women are beautiful at all stages.
Rachel got to fulfill two fantasies at once—being with an older woman, and having a threesome with her lover. Wow!
If you have a furious kink for a mature babe, why not experience it in tandem with your desire for a threesome? If you’ve never thought about it, you should.
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