Besides the obvious WOW factor that is inherent in a threesome, there are also many things you walk away with.
Threesome lessons can happen before, during, and after the big event. And what better way to learn than through group sex!
6 Things a Threesome Teaches
- Confidence. Like most things in life, the more you practice, the better you get… and as a result, more confident. It can feel pretty great to be in the company of two sexy women, and if you can please both, even better.
- Patience. Threesomes don’t just happen (they can, but it’s rare) because there is usually some planning that goes into meeting a couple to join, or finding a third to join you and your partner. Then there’s the pre-threesome get together to discuss boundaries and expectations. All of this requires patience, but it’s worth it!
- Skills. When you engage in triads with new people, you never know what might be brought to the table—bed. A dominant woman may bring her strap-on for anal penetration, or a couple of women might introduce you to threesome sex positions you never imagined possible.
- Boundaries. Sexual limits become more important the more people that you add to the mix, and these should be talked about before your rendezvous. These kinds of discussions are often enlightening and will have you thinking about where and how far you might be willing to go.
- Stamina. Lasting longer is a goal for many men, and with two women you’ll want to pace yourself. There’s nothing worse than blowing your load early, or not being able to recharge enough to please more than one.
- Gratitude. A new kind of appreciation may result. You may realize your threesome fantasy isn’t quite what it’s cracked up to be, and you may appreciate your partner more. You may be grateful to the woman you’re with for allowing another woman into your bed, especially if it’s going to be on the regular.
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