There’s levels to this sexy shit. That’s part of the fun of continuing to explore it as far as you want to go… for that particular experience. Then next time, you have a new plateau to begin from when you decide to go to a higher level.
And that’s the beauty of intimacy: there is NO end level! There are infinite levels to explore since there are infinite intimate experiences we can create with ourselves, with each other, and with each of the 7 billion people on the planet! So there’s no way in hell that in one human lifetime, we could get to any last level of love. If we did, it would be a tragedy beyond expression in words. Just endless tears.
The beauty of the fact that there are infinite levels higher to go, is that there are also infinite levels below us. We can move around freely wherever we want in our connections to others, and it’s a joy to behold.
I had recently going to a Pride party for sex workers that I go to every year. Last year, as usual, there was a wild fucking sex party with six people and so much unspeakable sexual friction debauchery that I can’t speak about it without digressing waaaay too far from what I want to speak about: last night’s fun!
We normally have threesomes, foursomes, sixsomes aka orgies and have even had ten people fucking around together at one time—all negotiated and expressed with full consent. And this is hardcore fucking, sucking, role playing, sharing, two-on-one thrust frenzies, and more super sexy stuff.
But I was simply TIRED. I woke up from a Friday night AND Saturday morning of hardcore fucking a lover of mine that takes me to the end of the universe and back when we have sex. I give her my all, she squirts all over my everything, and she gives me her all. It’s glorious.
So when I went to this sex party, I was exhausted. But you don’t stay home on nights like this! So I told a cutie who I just met, “I’m spent, but I’m still down to cuddle.” She said “So am I! Let’s do that.” Three minutes later, me being exactly on her wavelength, she came over to me and started kissing me on the lips, no questions asked. It was amazing.
Then a few minutes later after being frisky, the host of the party (someone I’ve had multiple threesomes with, and then some) had seen this, and started kissing us both. It became a kissing-groping-sucking-licking threesome with so much heat, I couldn’t believe how fast and furious it became.
It wasn’t penetrative sex, but dicks and vaginas were being played with reckless abandon. This non-sexual threesome is also a pleasure to experience from time to time, especially when you’re tired from fucking so much, and you already have connections with some of the people!
So please, explore all the levels of sex that you like! And when you want to return to a level you’ve been to before with someone you’ve already shared wonderful things with.
Threesome make-out sessions are really underrated, methinks… so treat yourself to one!
Kisses and hugs,
Addi Stewart
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