What You Can Learn about Threesomes from Porn

For the most part, guys (and gals) know that porn is not where to learn about real-life sex. We know it’s fantasy, and even when it’s not staged by professional actors, it’s selective, edited, or at least a special occasion and not everyday play.

When it comes to threesomes, the common fantasy is also one of the most common kinds of porn people want to see. And you already know those perfect romps with two girls and a guy that you see on screen aren’t how things really are.

You’ve seldom had two Pam Lee lookalikes BEG you to fuck them one after another, for example, and none of the girls you’ve banged at once both squirted at the same time.

What You Can Learn about Threesomes from Porn

Different Threesome Positions

If you’re not naturally creative, you probably discovered pretty quickly that threesomes aren’t effortless, and can be awkward when trying to include everyone.

What kind of positions work best is an ongoing experiment and adventure, but at least in porn you can see how they work, what’s required, and who gets to play when.

You’ll also be able to figure out which ones you or your lovers are not able to work with. Your girlfriend might not be a yogi, or maybe you have a knee injury, so some of the more acrobatic positions you see can be ruled out.

YOU Can Have a Threesome

Although a lot of porn is by paid professionals who are natural models or have huge tits or a mega-size cock, where everyone is always 22, you also see a ton of threesome porn where the people have average, normal bodies and body parts. You see folks of all ages, and people of all sizes.

Threesomes are not just for young drunk college students who happen to meet a bi-curious stripper and get naked. Regular people can and do want sex with one, two or more, and they’re out there looking for you.

How to Articulate and Demonstrate What You Like or Don’t Like

If you’re the silent type, or don’t always find the words, it can be tricky to express what it is you want in bed. Maybe you aren’t sure. Watching porn can help.

When you see something that’s a turn off, you become aware that’s something you don’t want at all.

When you see something you want to try, or something that excites you, the scenario it’s presented in can help you convey your desire in the future or figure out the mechanics of it in advance.