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Threesome Myths Perpetuated by Porn

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Most men first start to fantasize about the threesome after watching it in porn videos, and it’s the number one male fantasy for good reason. It’s sexy and sultry and has many variations to play on.

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Porn can be a great inspiration for masturbation or a fun adjunct to any relationship, but it should never be your teacher or guide when it comes to sex, especially something you have never tried before.

When a man slaps me in the ass and calls me a dirty slut on our first hookup, I can sadly tell he watches too much porn and confuses it with real life. This type of thing isn’t something you should do until you really know a woman, and know it’s the kind of thing she likes.

Threesome porn is as popular as the fantasy because many men are content to watch others engage in group sex, or they don’t know how to make a threesome happen.

Let’s look at what porn gets wrong when it comes to group sex. This will help you avoid some blunders on the way to making your fantasy come true.

Threesome Myths Perpetuated by Porn

Threesomes are only about the man’s pleasure. Most threesomes you see on porn sites are two women and a man. FFMs may be most men’s number one choice, but they usually depict both women showing undying submissive sexual devotion. Women want attention in a threesome the same way they do in one-on-one sex. And many of us want to experience the MMF threesome.

Women love to play with each other. While some women are bi or bi-curious and enjoy getting it on with one another, the majority of straight women do it to please their partner.

Kissing and touching will happen, but a lot of women aren’t going to go down on each other because they see it as being too intimate. Don’t expect your girlfriend to be dying to dive into another’s girl’s muff.

Group sex just happens. In porn, a few friends are hanging out and suddenly they’re all naked and have cocks in mouths and other hot spots. Let’s be real—a successful threesome almost always takes thought and planning.

You need to find the right couple or single to join you and your girlfriend, and friends don’t usually fit this bill. It’s also important to discuss boundaries beforehand and take the time to get comfortable with one another.

Women love cumshots and double penetration. These two things run rampant in one-on-one interactions in porn as well. These are things men enjoy more than women, and you likely aren’t going to have a lady you met online for a threesome ready to engage in either of these just for your pleasure or fantasy.

Most women don’t mind if you cum on their breasts or belly or ass, but on the face—not really. And DP is usually something we will try with a trusted lover, not in an unfamiliar group setting. But hey, if you can be so lucky as to arrange a regular threesome, then who knows!

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