You’ve done it a thousand times before—all the more reason to revisit the basics and find a few new strokes. Eating pussy is one of the greatest tools you have in your threesome arsenal. It’s a staple of sex, not a garnish.
Some guys lament that blowjobs go the way of the dodo once new lovers turn long term. Well, it’s the same for cunnilingus. It’s heavenly in those heady days of new lust. Then the “main course” takes over, everyone’s in a hurry, and we get a few perfunctory licks on the way to the finish line.
A threesome with two women might bring blowjobs and pussy licking back into the set list. If you have two queens in your bed, let cunnilingus be an essential aspect of lovemaking.
Pussy Eating Tips for Threesomes
Tease, Tease, Tease
Remember that women’s arousal builds slowly. Even if she’s horny from the start and ripping off your clothes, a woman’s body has a long way to go from there. Some women have never experienced how aroused they can become because their lovers have never taken the time.
Oral sex begins before oral sex begins! Get her tongue tied with your kissing prowess first. Tell her that what you are doing to her mouth is what you want to do to her pussy.
Kiss her over her panties. Lick her and tease her before her panties come off. And even once you start, stop and start, stop and start, and go lightly for a long time.
Take Your Time
More important than specific techniques is time and patience. Some women prefer a tender touch and others respond to enthusiastic sucking. Every woman is different in her experience of what feels sexiest, but the common denominator is a preference for a slower pace.
Sparks can’t fly in thirty seconds, and she can’t relax if she senses you’re just getting it over with. Let her know you’re in it for the long haul. You can break things up with other kinds of touches, or vary your strokes, or accompany your mouth with your hands or a dildo. But enjoy a slow and sensual pace, so she can get lost in the sensations.
Watch and Learn, and Enjoy
One of the most essential parts of an FFM for women is the intensity of your excitement and arousal.
I would say that for most women, the other most exciting thing is the opportunity to make love to a woman and experience the joy of teasing her and pleasing her. So make sure your ladies who lunch have the leisure to get down to what they came for! And who knows, you may pick up a few pointers.
Taste Test for Two
Two is company, and three is not a crowd! Don’t let anyone feel like the third wheel. Make sure all lovers are participating in the ways they feel inspired to. One partner can lavish kisses and sucks on the receiver’s nipples, or perform oral for you—even better is making room for both of you between the receiver’s thighs.
How often does a woman get to experience two tongues? How often do you experience French kissing and pussy licking at the same time? You can both lick, slurp, and suck her pussy with a little creative positioning. One can kneel or lie from the side and focus on her clit or both of you can find a spot between legs spread wide.
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