Threesomes are often the happy result of a woman who dates men, but also loves women. Women who identify as bisexual or who simply love to experience female fantasy or touch in addition to a man’s might find the FFM threeway a satisfying way to fulfill all her needs at once while bringing extraordinary pleasure to her partners.
But there’s a first time for everything. Your leading lady may be thrilled that her lifelong fantasies are on the verge of coming true, or she might be excited and nervous at the same time.
Here’s how you can help make her first time with another woman something to remember.
How to Make Her First FFM Threesome a Beautiful Thing
Don’t hide the fact that it’s her first time getting naked with another woman.
You might be wondering how to approach things. If it’s your first threesome, or hers, things can be a lot more comfortable if you are open with your new partner. Maybe she’s enjoyed threeways with other men, but this is her first time with a female.
Whatever the situation is, it’s amazing and there’s no reason to hide it from the lover you will both be intimate with. It can help everyone know where things are at. It can also be powerfully erotic for all of you to participate in a like-a-virgin moment.
Consider looking for an experienced other woman.
It can be incredibly hot to have a beautiful woman show her—and you—the ropes. An experienced lover who already enjoys making love to women, or indulging couples in their threesome fantasies can help make her first time comfortable. She’ll be able to take the lead and encourage her.
Whoever you end up choosing, a good place to start your search is on a threesome dating site like the ones we recommend here.
Let your partner choose the third.
You might be dying to fuck the chubby brunette who keeps flirting with you at the post office, and maybe you will. But let her first time making love to a woman be all about her and her tastes and desires.
She might have designs already on someone she knows is polyamorous or adventurous. If you’re chatting with women interested in threeways online, let her attraction be the deciding factor when making the connection.
Let the threesome be women-centered.
An FFM threeway is so insanely hot for you that it might FEEL like it’s your treat, but for your lover’s first threesome with another woman, let the experience be female centered. Instead of focusing on how two naked babes can please you, make sure the focus is on her pleasure, and hers.
Enjoy the thrill of your partners experimenting with kissing, breast play, touching, pussy play, oral sex, and penetrating each other—whatever comes naturally as they explore. Your release, whenever it comes about, will be volcanic—trust me!
For more threesome tips from a woman’s perspective, check out this article at Bustle.
Prioritize her before, during, and after the threesome.
If she’s your girlfriend or wife, don’t forget that fact—even when your dick is inside the other woman. Make sure her pleasure, comfort and consent is of central importance to you. Be loving and supportive and sensitive to her needs. Don’t forget to let her know how much SHE turns you on and how much you love her.
If she’s your lover but you don’t have a commitment to honor, it’s still best practice to make her feel as if you are participating with her, and sharing the experience together, rather than being in competition or flying solo for your own thrill.
Show both women respect for consent, boundaries, and the gift they’re giving you. The more generous and caring you are, the better their experience will be—and yours.
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