Let me share some tips for lucky individuals who want to do right by their partners, masters, teachers, and wives to inspire repeated sessions as their selected audience. It’s a great ticket, if you can get it!
4 Rules for Cuckolds and Voyeurs on the Sidelines
1. Watch the show without comment or direction.
People who are witnesses have to keep respectfully silent, if not within the acceptable low volume that is appropriate for the sidelines. Like being in a movie theater or an art gallery, the general idea is to keep hush hush and enjoy what you are witnessing. This is the first basic understanding if you are either a cuckold or voyeur in a threesome.
2. Display the highest level of respect you know how to exhibit.
Verbally, physically, emotionally, socially, personally—be receptive and compliant to the commands and desires of your threesome scene leaders. You are not there to make demands and requests, are you? Doubtful. You are there to watch and learn, listen and look. If you can, assist with beverages or condoms or lube or towels on the side of the event if you see a need.
There are many ways to show your respect, but just not being distracting is a big and important one.
3. Keep your distance from the scene.
Nothing is more annoying than a voyeur who is supposed to be watching but who is trying to get all up in the scene. Whether it’s just being too close and making the others uncomfortable, or being physically intrusive when they are not supposed to be part of the playtime.
There are some scenes where a cuck may be allowed to play with themselves while the other people are getting it on, and that’s all fine and dandy, but in my experience it has to be arranged that way ahead of time. It can’t be the cuck’s decision.
A voyeur best keep themselves five feet back from the naked bodies. I’ve had a voyeur who was in the next room, drinking a glass of wine and smoking cigarettes in the dark while watching me have sex with his wife! Now THAT’S my kind of voyeur—someone who has no intention of touching or getting close to the show.
4. Practice sexual discretion and respect privacy.
After it’s all said and done, one of the next greatest sins a cuck or a voyeur could commit would be posting all over social media or blabbing to their work buddies about what kind of threesome they saw on the weekend. Want to be a good voyeur? Keep both eyes open and keep your mouth closed.
A cuckold’s role and relationship is rarely a conversation that takes place in traditional company, so them telling other people about how they were put in so and so position and made to do this and that are probably not that possible. I don’t hear it much, not in my travels, but what do I know? Ha.
For the people who get to be straight witnesses: don’t take photos, don’t record videos, and don’t share stories with people who weren’t there. The only time it might be okay, is if EVERYONE involved explicitly and openly agrees on sharing.
If they invite you in, THEN you can participate, which has happened to me from time to time, without question. But it’s vital to remain on the sidelines without any intention or mental vibration that feels like you want to get in where you weren’t supposed to be. Stick to the plan, and you never know where things will go.
The bottom line really comes down to consent and boundaries when it comes to both participating in a threesome and also sitting on the sidelines and watching.
Good luck,
Addi Stewart
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