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Threesomes vs. Cuckoldry

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A cuckold is a man who is unable to contain his wife’s sexual desires. She runs around behind his back and makes him a laughingstock. Nowadays, there are all sorts of men who get off on the prospect of being a cuckold.  

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These men want to see their wives or girlfriends fucking other guys. They want to hear about it. They want to be right there under the action so when the other guy cums it gets into their mouth and face in the messiest way possible.  

A big part of this is the pleasure in humiliation. That and the fact that it is hot to watch other people getting it on, especially if there are stakes like love involved. Really, cuckoldry can be a big, and healthy, part of a loving relationship.

That said, the power balance matters. A cuckold scenario is technically a threesome, but it goes in a separate category because of the games of power and powerlessness that each of the players choose to play.  

The “bull” is the man who dominates both the wife, and by extension the cuckold. The bull is the man who can satisfy the wife where the cuckold cannot. The wife submits willingly to the bull while chiding her masturbating pathetic husband on how worthless his sexuality is.

In a threesome, though, we get non of this. The threesome concept is an idea of equity and equal sharing. Everyone gives a little and gets a little. It doesn’t matter if everyone does everyone, exactly, but the dynamic between the bull and the cuckold would be fucked up in a regular threesome.

This isn’t to say that every threesome is ideal. People definitely end up in lousy threesomes all the time.  Plus, the feelings after the threesome can develop into cuckold material, depending on how various egos have been managed or damaged.

All the same, even if it is a husband and wife getting it on with another person, it won’t necessarily be a cuckold situation unless the aspect of humiliation and power gets involved. There are no hard and fast rules for where the boundaries between one and the other are. Of course, this is just my observation.

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