You know that there’s an infinite amount of ways to connect sexually, right? The fun thing about sex is that there are NO rules to it once consent has been established between the players playing pleasure games together!
What I’m trying to convey to you in this post is the semi-appreciated truth of grown adult sexuality: Not every single threesome has to involve SEX!
There’s a special magic to having three naked people negotiating special boundaries of contact, before connecting deeply through pleasure and penetration. BUT it does not always have to be the goal of a successful threesome—there are so many unexplored options that are available to us at all times.
I’ve had a threesome with just kissing, where we all shared tongues for a half hour, simply smooching and sharing lips. Not much touching, no heavy groping, just mouth play. It was heaven.
I’ve had a threesome where everyone kept their pants on but took their tops off. So breasts and nipples were played with, kissing and hugging was enjoyed by all. But there was no penetrative activity happening, and it was joyous and memorable like few experiences I’ve had.
I’ve had a threesome where I just stood there and let things unfold. Two other people did whatever they wanted to my naked body as I just took both of their arms, legs, lips, mouths, breasts, oral sex offers, and other interesting intimate engagements. That was so wonderful, because we were part-time partners and friends who didn’t expect this opportunity to come together. We usually played separate, but this day, the stars aligned.
I didn’t plan to just be standing there, but they entered the room, some sexual things had already transpired with me and some other people in the space, and they just saw me and took full advantage of the opportunity to engage! I didn’t mind whatsoever.
I’ve also had a threesome where everyone just gave oral sex to one person there—the only focus was to satisfy one woman’s body to the fullest. This is a special type of threesome and can’t be conducted by too many folks, as being a selfish individual will totally ruin the necessary synchronicity. But if you find the right person, then it’s a special type of scenario where it’s an all-for-one and ostensibly one-for-all mentality of sharing and caring.
Want to hear a true story about another next-level threesome connection?
I have seen a threesome that consisted of one woman giving a guy head, and while that was happening, another good friend of hers had rolled a condom onto her tiny foot, and I kid you not, inserted her condomed foot into the pussy of her friend who was giving head! This was not the first time they had done this with each other, either! Now I suppose that counts as penetration, but I just had to share!
The truth is that there is really no end to the types of connections we can have with each other sexually, erotically and intimately. And they do not have to all head towards penetration of an ass or a pussy. There need not even be genitals involved every time!
The non-penetrative threesome can honestly be a shockingly refreshing new way to approach connection.
Thank you,
Addi Stewart
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