If you’ve never had a threesome with your wife or girlfriend, don’t just jump in. Of course, it may take a little coaxing and convincing to even get the ball rolling.
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Once you do agree on having a group sex encounter, there are a few rules that should be adhered to that will maintain the well being of your union.
Threesome Rules
Have a threesome to enhance your relationship, not fix it. If your partner and you have problems, a threesome is NOT going to fix them. Adding a third to the mix, even if only one time, is likely to make things worse. You need a secure and solid foundation between you and your lady, and if it means holding off—do it.
Discuss your separate visions. Don’t wait until you’re in the throes of a threesome to scream out a boundary about to be crossed. Negotiating your limits and boundaries, desires and fantasies, for a group sex encounter ahead of time will save you both from many possible threesome pitfalls.
Keep your expectations low. No matter whose idea it was for the threesome, it’s important that you both go in understanding that threesomes rarely live up to one’s fantasy. It could be mind blowing, but it likely won’t play out the way you’ve imagined since you were sixteen, and definitely not like you see in porn. Enjoy the awkward, messy fun that sex is.
Check in with your partner during the scene. You may get so wrapped up in a threesome that you don’t notice that one person is sitting on the sidelines. If that person is your primary partner, you may be facing a big argument later. Make sure to check in, whether through eye contact or a squeeze of her hand, or simply by asking.
Engage in a debriefing post-threesome. You may have had the time of your life, but are you sure your partner enjoyed herself as much as you did. Once your third has left, talk with your lady over coffee or while snuggling in bed. What turned her on? Off? Is it something you both want to try again? With that same third? What could have made the experience better?
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