As if a threesome weren’t hot enough already, you can really get the juices flowing even more with a little dirty talk.
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I know a lot of men and women who always say, “It’s just not me. I don’t know how to do it.” when the subject of sexy chit chat comes up. I was the same, and then one day I met a hot guy who started sexting me. I was embarrassed and even a little turned off, but once I took that cringe-worthy first leap and sent the ever popular I’m-touching-myself-right-now text, there’s been no turning back.
You really have to be with the right people or at least in the right moment to feel comfortable enough to get your dirty talk swag on, but those who find themselves in threesomes are usually of the comfortable kind. Nonetheless, I offer some tips to help you find your dirty groove.
Sexy Tips for Dirty Talk
Know your audience. It’s rare that we find ourselves in a threesome with total strangers, usually one of the participants is already a partner or at least a friend. You can talk dirty with them to start. This can set the tone and encourage other participants.
Start with the tame stuff. Think of dirty conversation as having its own sexual arc. Light foreplay might include “I love the swell of your hips” or “I can’t wait to be inside you.” Full on thrusting talk might venture into things like “You like it when I smack your ass?” or “I want to lick your asshole, stick my tongue right in.” These latter phrases or alike need to be worked up to.
Be prepared for boundaries. You may say something that really throws a woman off, especially if it’s something you watched in a porn vid. Please, do not equate threesome reality with threesome porn. Almost all women do not enjoy what is done to them in these videos. And when a lady shuts your dirty talk down or says she doesn’t like it when you say, “Who’s your daddy?” change your approach asap.
Watch reactions and adjust accordingly. Just like when you make a sweet move that you’ve been dying to try, you need to be fully present and watch how someone reacts. Did they moan in pleasure, gasp in delight, or frown in disapproval? If she liked what you said, stay that track, otherwise switch course.
Use dirty talk before, during, and after sex. One of the hottest things to do before a threesome is build a little anticipation through sexting. Talk about your desires and fantasies to pique her interest. Keep this sexy monologue going during your group encounter, and if you are with a partner, bring up the experience later in bed with some hot memories of what turned you on and what you want to try the next time.
Try on a different character. Role playing can be so much fun in threesomes. And when you play a part, you can get away with saying a lot of things you might not say as yourself. Some people feel much more free when acting. Give it a go!
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