Group sex can be a sexually liberating experience for a couple, or it can be a relationship killer. All this depends on the self-confidence each person has in themselves. It depends on the trust they have in their partner. And it depends on where the two are at in their relationship.
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Tips for Opening Up Your Relationship
Start off slow. You might begin by flirting with others, describing fantasies, or going out on dates with other people and discussing it after. If the jealousy comes up, examine it and decide how you feel moving forward.
Take a chance. You’re at a party and everybody’s sitting around awkwardly looking at each other. How do you get started? A drink to calm the nerves never hurts. After that, you might say, “Who wants to come and play with me/my lady/me and my lady?” Watch for reactions to see who might be truly interested.
Know each other’s limits and boundaries. Discuss your individual fantasies beforehand in order to find a scenario that works for both of you. This will prevent a group sex experience from becoming a long-term issue that keeps rearing its ugly head into arguments.
Be prepared to discover more about yourself and your lover. You might find that you have a richer love life, but you might also lose your lady if she realizes that she wants more and you don’t. Or you might decide to leave your lady because she’s a prude. Who knows?
Play safe. Always be prepared with lots of condoms, and make sure everyone wears one. Who needs the headache of an STD? Nobody has time for that!
Keep your jealousy in check. If it’s happening, let it happen. If your partner is in the middle of being fucked madly, don’t stop her or bug her just because you feel insecure. Sit down, pull out your dick and enjoy the show. Wait until she acknowledges you. And don’t interrupt other people, either. Lovemaking needs its own space and time.
Don’t engage in group sex until you’re both ready. Before jumping into a full-on orgy, begin with a threesome and then move on to a small group of trusted friends or lovers.
Pace yourself. Like Frankie says, “Relax, don’t do it!” If you cum too early, you may be bored for the rest of the night, watching other people have fun. If the blowjob is too good, then stop and give someone else head for a bit. Besides, edging is a great way to experience a more explosive orgasm.
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