A lot of men who fantasize about threesomes or group sex never get to make their dream a reality. Why? Because they worry their partner would never go for it.
Let’s look at some ways to determine if your lover might just be up for a threesome.
Work your way up through other kinks. Try light bondage, bun sexy toys, and making out in public. If she seems like she can’t get enough of the kink then it’s probably worthwhile to see how far you can let things escalate.
Gauge her fantasies. Does she dirty talk in the bedroom? Try out some role-playing scenarios, or make a joke about inviting the mailman in. When you two have another lady friend over (particularly one who is very tactile or flirty) make a lot of contact. Cuddle up and watch a movie together on the couch. See how cozy you all can get.
Watch porn together. Play some threesome porn for her and see if it turns her on. Play a movie that start features a threesome, and see if she finds the uptick in action exciting. Ask her later, “Hey, you seemed to get turned on during that threesome scene, what’s up with that?”
Be aware of her levels of jealousy. A jealous woman is way less likely to be able to handle a threesome. She just doesn’t have the emotional maturity. A lady who is confident about herself and her relationship can handle it, and will likely be way more chill about branching out.
Flirt lightly with other women. How does she react? Does it turn her on that you get turned on by men flirting with her? This is a good sign. It means that all kinds of kinky ass shit is boiling under the hood, just waiting to be sprung free.
Express your gratitude. A woman is more likely to get off on pleasing her man when he is grateful and shows his appreciation inside and outside the bedroom. If she gets off on your happiness, then she is more likely to want to please you, even if it’s not a specific desire of hers.
If you just don’t know or can’t read the signs, then simply ask. You never know what she might say!
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