Are you in a poly relationship and looking for someone who is interested in an ongoing threesome arrangement? Maybe your wife has finally said yes to your group sex fantasy.
The first and most important step in planning a threesome when you’re a couple is securing your third. Whether it’s a man or woman, it’s vital to choose together. Let’s look at some things to consider when looking for an FFM threesome.
4 Tips for Choosing a Third
- Avoid choosing a friend. It may be tempting to ask your hot friend or sexy co-worker, but this can spell disaster on many fronts. Take it from someone who’s gone down this path, it’s best to look online, preferably on a dating site that caters to threesomes, like CouplesDating.com.
- Search together and have fun. The best part of online dating is that it’s ultra casual. You can climb in bed together with your laptop and browse for days. Take your time, read profiles thoroughly, and write messages together.
- Decide together. If you have to convince your partner about a woman you find super sexy and think would be perfect, she probably won’t be. You may need to compromise a little, or even decide to each make a choice… for two separate threesomes!
- Get to know her before you meet in person. All couples have their way about this, but I highly recommend discussing boundaries and expectations beforehand. There’s no point in meet and wasting anyone’s time if she and you both aren’t going to align.
There’s always a chance for things to go off the rails for unexpected reasons, but taking your time and going through the process, beginning to end, as a team does increase your chances of satisfaction.
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