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How Threesomes in Real Life Are Different from Porn

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It’s hot to watch others get it on in one’s fantasies and in porn, but real threeways are different in so many ways.

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In my experience, these are the main differences between real threesomes and porn versions.

Real life threesomes are funnier.

There’s a lot of grunting and panting and moaning in porn, but usually not a lot of laughing.

Any awkward segues between moves are edited out, and the actors are always super agile and capable of astonishing feats of athleticism and transition between acts or partners. Everything works seamlessly and people orgasm at the exact desired time, effortlessly.

We all know it’s not like that in real life, and it would be dullsville if it were. Real sex can be awkward—bodies sometimes don’t fit together, 69ing doesn’t always work, orgasm can be elusive, and it’s funny as hell.

The mechanics of threesomes can be especially humorous. It makes sense—procreation is usually a man and woman, so adding another to the mix is a little something extra, and you get creative making it happen.

For the best triads possible, ENJOY the lighter side of it. No need to stress over fumbling maneuvers or awkward efforts. Enjoy the ride.

Real people have real bodies and faces.

It’s true that a lot of porn these days is “real-wife” or real-life porn, but even so, those who are young and hot are more likely to be adventurous about putting their bodies online. The rest of us enjoy sex and don’t show the whole world our intimate lives. So you will see some diversity in porn: some older folks, differently abled men and women, average bodies, and some less endowed peeps. Some.

You still won’t really get the idea of the range of bodies and faces, though. To get an idea, look around you on the bus. The vast majority of people you see have had sex.

I enjoy adventurous polyamorous sex, and along the way I’ve learned that some of the best sex is real-people sex— people who don’t stop their hot sex life just because they had a baby or their hairline receded.

Threesomes can be more intimate.

Porn threeways are about getting the viewer horny enough to masturbate. While that’s usually a PART of real-life sex, there are other aspects involved in real-life sex that don’t show up in most porn.

Threesomes are a major fantasy for a lot of a people, but fucking is not only hot, it’s also about relating to one or more human beings—something jerking off isn’t about at all. Whether it’s an ongoing threeway or a fleeting hookup, you’re still getting together with real people.

Threesome sex can be as giving, generous, and intimate as one-on-one sex. You discover something about another person or couple, you relate to them with conversation, you joke around, and you share a few hours of your life in a very close way that not everyone is part of.

This is why I love connecting sexually in a real threesome and not just watching my favorite porn scenes. It’s amazing to get so close to others and share something so intense and beautiful and hot.

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