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My Threesome Experience in Front of a Camera

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The beautiful thing about threesomes, is that there are SO MANY KINDS! All the different genders and sexes that can interact, all the different boundaries and levels of intimacy and sexuality you can all share (TRUST ME, a pants-on make-out threesome with damn near anybody is hot as hell in my books) all the different places you can do them, and so on and so forth.

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There are never-ending ways to explore one’s higher amour side with another couple. But there is one scenario that shifts things a bit: when a camera is involved.

THIS is one of those times when you gotta share the power in a threesome. If you get down and boogie a lot, it just comes up from time to time. Not always does one get to establish ALL the parameters they wish, and it’s not because one’s boundaries are being violated: NO! Never that. It’s just that there are certain extra restrictions that are gingerly placed around each person’s freedom, whilst playing.

You still get to do whatever you want. But for example, the person with the camera might be asking you to change a position you might not normally change in the heat of the moment. And that’s when you do some internal shifting of power and energy. Do you want to get the best shot or do you want to get the realest shot? Or do you want to fluidly move between both?

Porn SEX is made for the audience in mind, not so much for the people having sex. Hopefully the people having sex are having as much genuine fun as possible, and the camera is just capturing it!

NOT every time a camera is running while sex is happening is porn being made though. It could be amateur video for private use, and in that case, it’s less about angles and lighting than it is about just documentation of the deliciousness. Yet again, you’re sharing your time and space and power and motion with someone else who might ask you to move your leg so that they can get a better shot, or tell you to stop making so much noise while you fuck in that position because the microphone is picking up the bed springs squeaking.

THEN what do you do? Do you stop and have a discussion about background noises and what you will tolerate in your videos? Or will you say, “STFU, I’m fucking!” and keep on truckin’?

It’s not too often the camera person gets in on the shoot too, but I’ve done it. I’ve held the camera while getting a double blowjob from the lovely young lady in the pictures! And that’s a mindblower, lemme tell ya… but also, it HAS to be done with someone who respects the boundaries of ALL the people involved on a much higher level than the regular elevated level of maturity and emotion that polyamory requires.

Mix it up. Set your boundaries. Have the fun. But make sure you find the sweet spot between a good video and having a good time making a good video.

Love,
Addi Stewart

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