My first threesome was with my best friend and a guy we picked up at our local bar. It was convenient and spontaneous and fun. And we did it a couple more times. This happy-go-lucky lifestyle didn’t last long though because life got in the way, as it often does. She settled down and I focused on school, and it was a long time before I had any group sex encounters again.
While many people use online dating to meet partners for love or casual sex, there are still many of you out there who haven’t tried it. Hey, I get it. I was a late joiner to the threesome dating game for many reasons, but I’ve had so many great experiences since that I promote it whenever I can. If you want a threesome, it’s the best place to meet other sexually adventurous lovers.
Once you’re ready to take your search for threesome partners online, read our article How to Find a Threesome Online.
Why You Should Find Threesome Partners Online
1. You don’t have the social circle to meet new threesome partners.
Spontaneous hookups, with one or two, are more likely to happen in our twenties or thirties. But as we get older our circles shrink, and there’s not as much fruit hanging on the trees for us to choose from.
If most of the people you know are in relationships or too close for sexual comfort, then join a dating site or two and start browsing. There are so many people looking online that you may have trouble choosing who to send your first message to!
2. You want to cut to the chase.
Asking a woman if she’s into having a threesome isn’t something you bring up on a first date, or even a second. You may need to be dating for months before it seems appropriate.
Or maybe you’re married and you and your wife have decided to open up your relationship to a third. The easiest way to meet possible partners is to go online. You can take as much time as you need to find the right threesome partner for both of you.
3. You live in a small or rural town.
If you don’t live in a metropolitan area, it can be difficult even meeting people for hookups, let alone threesomes. On dating sites, you can cast your net—search area—as wide as you want. You can look for members within a one-hour drive or across the whole wide world.
4. You seek anonymous threesome hookups and confidentiality.
There may be plenty of places where you do live to meet potential partners, but maybe you don’t want be so out in the open. You might prefer your threesome to be discreet for many a reason, from anything like living in a close-knit community where gossip is king, or wanting to keep your bi-curious or BDSM explorations extremely private.
5. You travel regularly and want one-off group encounters.
If you find yourself constantly on the road or flying to who knows where for business or pleasure, you may want to take these opportunities to hook up with sexy strangers. Online threesome dating offers you the chance to find threesome partners in advance, which gives you something to look forward to after a long day of meetings.
6. You have very particular threesome fantasies.
Any threesome can be challenging to arrange, but if you are seeking something specific that involves joining a couple, kinks, BDSM, or threesome roleplay you’re best success will be found online. Forget mainstream dating sites, and go niche with sites like BDSMdate.com which accepts kinky couples and singles. Whatever your fantasy, there’s a site that caters to it.
Have you found threesomes online? Please share your tips in the comments!
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