It’s really true that dating a bunch of different women is all about self-confidence. More than that, however, it’s about the perception that your stock has a lot of value.
There was this woman I had been chasing for quite a while. We had been hanging out for months, actually. She had been visiting my place, going to the beach together, all kinds of things.
Yet, despite all that, I felt like I was sliding further and further into the friend zone. She used to complain about all the shitty guys she was dating, going on about her love life as if to imply that she wanted to find somebody to screw her brains out. When I got flirty, she just game me this repulsed vibe, like she’d just heard something crude from her younger brother.
I’d mostly given up the ghost on this lady, but then a strange thing happened. I was chasing after this other woman and having some success, in that she was agreeing to hang out with me. We went to a party together and had a nice hangout and chat. However, this second lady’s friend got roaring drunk and ambushed me on the lawn, sticking her tongue down my throat.
The lady I was on a date with saw it, and I thought maybe the date was ruined since she might not know who started what. I ended up leaving because they were both wasted, and I didn’t want to bother with drunk women. It’s too much of a minefield in this day and age.
Anyhow, after I left, the lady who was treating me like a kid brother showed up at the party and overheard these other two having a drunken debate about which one of them was better for me. I guess a light bulb must have gone off in her mind because after that she was calling me all the time, trying to get me to come over in the middle of the night. Suddenly I had stock value. Not only was I desirable in and of myself, but also she could say that she had managed to snag something the other two hadn’t. This was a boost to my sexual confidence for sure.
I don’t pretend to understand how all of this works. I am just along for the ride. The best idea would be to have all three, one by one… maybe a threesome! The point is that we only have one life and one body. Doing the boring thing is hardly worth it. That’s my new year’s fantasy. What’s yours?
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