Group Sex Hookups with Friends of Friends

This is some advanced threesome action, and this type of fun isn’t recommended for everyone, that’s for damn sure. I am speaking about sexual interactions with random folks, and that is something I suggest only to advanced, mature, practiced, experienced poly folks.

Seriously folks, don’t do what I’m about to describe unless you’re really stable and in a good place sexually. This is for the overachievers, and if I wasn’t so smart and prepared as a sexual overachiever myself, I would have been in deep doggie doodoo at the end of this night.

So yeah, I got a message from a lady from New York. She said “I’m going to be getting an AirBnB and I want you to come thru and fuck me.” That was all I needed to hear to get interested! She was friends with another lovely woman who I had already had intimate intentions with, and THAT woman was already with ANOTHER lover of mine, so any lack of trust or fear that I might have felt was being assuaged and eliminated by proxy.

I didn’t know the lady who sent the message, but I knew her friends and I loved her friends, so I felt like I would love her. I would. I just didn’t know I wouldn’t love the FRIENDS of her friends. So, it was essentially a fivesome that ended up almost kinda sorta happening. Five people showed up. Four of them had sex.

What was the problematic issue of the night? Only THREE of us were interested in condoms! How did I discover this? HALFWAY through the second session of sex between us all, I looked over at the other guy in the room having sex and saw him go IN for the kill of love, bump hips for a while, then come OUT of the connection of sex without removing any kind of protection upon his person! OYYYY VAAAAY!

In a foursome with people you JUST met that night, not having sex with condoms is simply a no-no in my books, especially if you haven’t spoken to them about safety and “when were you last tested?” and basic stuff like that!

So, I noted that burning red flag when it was waved, and carried on with my SAFE sex foursome, always remembering: PLAY SAFE. NO matter who you’re with!

I couldn’t believe it. The dude wasn’t wearing condoms and didn’t even ask to not wear condoms or if she was on the pill or IUD or anything. In the immortal words of Loki: “It’s madness!”

The sex was amazing, so there’s that, but the moral of the story is: TALK TO EVERYONE ABOUT SAFE SEX BOUNDARIES IN A GROUP SEX ENCOUNTER. Don’t make assumptions! It’s really not cool.

Love,
Addi Stewart

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