So, I got called in to shoot a porn scene recently. I always enjoy these evenings, where I get paid to do some sexy things with sexy people. You never know where things will lead, but you kinda suspect that there are possibilities open on these days that aren’t regularly available. And that’s a fun place to be, especially when you have an open mind and heart! But where does it stop is always the question and answer to know—let me explain.
I entered the scene and honestly, this was one of the fastest introductions to a sexy situation that I have ever had. I was a friend of the cameraman, but I didn’t know the actress involved, so I was open to meeting them and working with them for the videographer. I got to the location, and literally within two minutes of me entering the door, I was invited to “get busy!”
The camera began recording as I undressed to enjoy the pleasure and company of this woman. I am happy in those moments, generally, ha. And she was happy to see me, even though we only knew each other’s porn names, and nothing else. This can be an impediment for some people connecting, especially sapiosexuals, but I sometimes have that in a psychic sense, that comes with people who enjoy creating porn.
Porn is an art form and a wonderful environment to create and explore one another, and we were doing so with curiosity and joy. The cameraman was on the side, then the back, then the front, taking it all in and doing what they wanted to do while we did what we wanted to do.
Then what happened next is kinda like a scene out of a movie, or at least a sitcom!
What would YOU do if… the cameraman jumped into the sex scene? Would you stop, or would you keep going? I’ve actually been in this position at various points in my life, and they are very interesting positions to be in.
I’ve been in a situation where the photographer wanted to be with the woman I was intimate with, and the woman said no, and the photoshoot went horribly. I’ve also been in photoshoots where the photographer got directly involved, and the woman was very happy to indulge, and I didn’t mind sharing the fun times either. A twosome became a threesome. You must never cross a line in a sexy situation like this without everyone’s consent.
I had already shot porn with this photographer, and knew him for many years, as well as shared a variety of personal experiences with him, so I was okay with him joining the twosome. She was okay with it too, which was absolutely necessary for me to continue. But then… what would you do if he asked you to shoot an anal scene? What would you do if she asked you to kiss him? What would you do if he asked to go down on you?
These things can happen in any threesome, not just on a porn set. And you have to know what you’re cool with and what you’re not down to do, and how to express those limits and boundaries.
What are some of your threesome boundaries? Please share in the comments!
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Addi Stewart
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