It’s a lucky threesome where the passion and desire is equally balanced all around! It isn’t something that one can plan or measure or control, but it’s a nice dream to wish for!
When dreams even come halfway close to being true, then life is a bowl of ice cream with multiple flavors in it, so bon appétit!
I was in a threesome where the desires really were not circulated evenly at all, and it was weird yet fun as hell. It was me, a yoga teacher, and a professional dancer. We were all attentive to each other and also attractive, but we all had different energetic agendas at play! He liked me, I liked her, and she liked him… like way out of proportion!
We all were adults and professional poly people, so we were able to negotiate and discuss the intimate encounter honestly and happily, but the underlying truth of the matter was: our interests were off balance as fuck!
I did like him and thought he was a beauty of a man, but I liked her three times as much. She was about as hot for him as I was for her, and he wanted me WAY MORE than he wanted her. It was like a sexual recycle sign with human energy.
It worked and we all had fun, but we didn’t really share as much as we could have. It’s not to take away from the experience—we all enjoyed it—but it just wasn’t as balanced as other threesomes, where everyone enjoys everyone almost equally.
You just gotta laugh and live and learn, but it’s also nice to evenly spread around the lust!
Try it,
Addi Stewart
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