Many feelings are almost guaranteed in a group sex encounter, especially with people you know or have already had sexual relations with.
Excitement is probably the number one feeling you can count on, and this may start weeks in advance if you know a threesome has already been arranged. Add anxiety to this, and lust, and hope. Pre-threesome feelings are a smorgasbord of synergy, just waiting to unfold.
But what about the unexpected feelings that may arise. You may think about these, or even worry about these, but sexual attraction and and animal instincts are likely to keep them at bay or bury them before you know what hit you.
3 Feelings that Might Come Up in a Threesome
1. Jealousy
Scenario: You’ve been fantasizing about watching your wife get pounded by another man for years. She decides to grant your numero uno desire one time. You are all geared up, sitting in the corner, ready to watch them fuck. Then… before he gets his cock in while she eagerly waits on all fours, you feel something less than what you expected.
It’s not uncommon to feel jealous, even if you’ve thought out your fantasy a million times. If one of your partners is someone you love and it’s your first time sharing them, jealousy is normal. Discuss expectations and boundaries well ahead of contacting a potential third online to avoid or shrink this emotion’s potential.
2. Anger
Scenario: You’ve never felt quite right about being in an MMF threesome, but your girlfriend wants her fantasies realized too. Maybe he’s being too rough with her or maybe he’s grabbed your cock in the heat of the moment, and you expressly aren’t interested on any man-on-man interactions.
Both of these occurrences may have you seeing red, but it’s never okay to act out rage. Disengage immediately, and state what behavior is making you angry in an effort to resolve things. If it’s a game-over scene, discuss things thoroughly with your partner in private afterwards.
3. Love
Scenario: You go to a party and have a spontaneous threesome hookup with your girlfriend and her best friend. It starts with them just kissing, then heavy petting, then before you know it you’re all naked and giving each other oral. It happens again a month later, and again, and you find yourself falling in love with your girl’s bestie.
Sex ignites many intense emotions, and lust is often confused with love. It’s okay to feel chemistry and an attraction to other women, that’s normal, but it’s important that you examine these feelings before saying or doing anything irrational that could damage your current relationship.
If you’re in a serious relationship with someone you love, I recommend seeking a third for threesomes who is not a friend to either you or your primary partner. Sex with friends not only has the potential to jeopardize your relationship, but also your friendship.
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