So you want to have your first MMF threesome? You know a guy, as they say. Ha ha. Well step right on up, bucko! You are about to dive into Legendary Land!
I’m going to give you two words to keep in mind to hopefully help you get the invitation, get to the moment of joy, get through a whole bunch of magical experiences beyond the edges of your imagination, and then get out of it all with a smirk on your sweet-ass face.
These two words are “PILOT COOL.” You are going to be PILOT COOL, as calm as a pilot guiding his crew and passengers through a lightning storm. No matter how windy, rainy, dark, bright, or turbulent it is, you stay as calm as you can. That’s the first suggestion I give to anyone having their first MMF threesome. Be chill about it.
Then, prepare. Get condoms, lots and lots of them. Get lube. Then get more lube. Get some toys if you’re into them. What does she want? Get that stuff for her. What does he want? Go get it with him. Do you need a squirt blanket? Do you plan on fucking all night and over night? Then get some juice and eggs and bread for the morning… plan ahead!
Then it’s only about a few things: Who, Where, and When. The What is “Threesome” and the “Why” is irrelevant!
5 Tips for Your First MMF Threesome
1. Give and Take Responsibly
Want a great threesome? Stay tied in third place when it comes to how much passion you give and take! Don’t be greedy and take way more of him or her or them than the other person does, and don’t be lazy and give way less. f you wa
If you want to be more of a voyeur and watch them, that’s fine too. But if not, then make like a recycle sign and balance your circle of sexxx!
2. Discuss Limits and Boundaries
Before you even start, decide what’s going to be entirely off limits to everyone, to some people, to one person. And let everyone know that clearly and openly. If there is to be no kissing, then say so before you all get naked. You don’t want any regrets ruining the righteous vibes, trust me!
Discuss these boundaries when you’re not fucking and sucking, and discuss what is going to happen if someone doesn’t honor a boundary. Gently stopping is usually enough, but remember, you can always leave at any time for any reason.
3. Be Open to Guy-to-Guy Contact
If you’re having an MMF threesome, you’re probably gonna touch the other guy’s body at some point. It could go down without contact with the other male, but it could go down where your genitals and his genitals are totally in contact because she wants some position and passion that requires a lot of you doing that. Don’t be closed minded to those possibilities as you have been told to be by people who have never had the experience.
Still, if you don’t want to touch him, that’s okay too. Maybe he’s not your type. This doesn’t mean you can’t have fun, just be clear about your boundaries.
4. Experiment with Positions
A primary reason to have a threesome is to be able to do things you can’t with only four arms and legs. There are so many MMF positions to explore. Pick up people! Make new shapes! Play sexual Twister! Do the Eiffel Tower! Do the Spit-Roast! Do The Triangle Train! Do new things I can’t describe!
There’s really no limit to the possibilities you can come up with. And that’s what it’s about. Fun! Fun! New, awesome fun. Go!
5. Be a Gentleman
When you’re all done, tidy and keep things neat—in the bed, in her head, in his head, in social situations, on the internet, with the condoms, and all other places and traces of remnants.
Do all you can to make sure that people are happy that it all happened—that they might be open to doing it all again, because it was so impeccably handled. Be that guy. And when the other guy is that guy too—damn, it’s so fucking amazing. She will adore you both. It will be the best kinda lovefest. Trust!
Only one way to know…
Love,
Addi Stewart
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