6 Advantages of Group Sex with Friends

Some people only want to have group sex experiences with anonymous strangers. I get it, the level of discretion is much higher when you get it on with a couple you met on a dating site, rather than swinging with your neighbors down the street.

If you have a large circle of friends who are into casual sex or maybe even living the poly lifestyle, you may prefer engaging in threesomes with buddies.

6 Advantages of Group Sex with Friends

1. Speed. Not that online dating can’t be efficient, but when you’re hooking up with friends you don’t have to spend time browsing profiles, messaging back-and-forth, or discussing boundaries with strangers. A lot of these things are already known between friends.

2. Trust. When you don’t know someone from Adam, you may spend the better part of your evening together, playing the get-to-know-you dance. And you aren’t likely to have enough trust to dip into the kinky activities you fantasize about. With friends, you probably won’t mind a little bondage, spanking, or threesome roleplaying.

3. Comfortability. Most people have a sexual hangup or two, not to mention some body image issues. When you throw down with friends, you feel a lot more at ease peeling off the layers than you do in front of complete strangers. Your environment will also be somewhere you feel at ease which helps one relax.

4. Confidence. Group sex is more successful and fun when everyone is feeling good about themselves… because confidence is sexy. When you’re around friends, you won’t be worrying about how you are perceived—these people know you, so there’s nothing to prove and less room for misinterpretation.

5. Intimacy. It takes a long time to build intimacy, just like trust. When you have sex with people you’ve known for a long time, you’re going to open up and be yourself much quicker than with an anonymous fuck buddy or two. And if one of your playmates is an ex-girlfriend, you can expect them to know and find your hot spots fast.

6. Honesty. If you plan a threesome with friends, you probably won’t have to beat around the bush. You will be able to be honest about what you want and don’t want, not worrying that if you say the wrong thing you’re plans will go up in smoke. This ability to speak plainly will also extend to any post-threesome discussion, whether you want to hook up again, or if it just wasn’t all that great an idea.

Any group sex with friends experiences you can share, good or bad?