I unwrapped a beautiful new strap-on dildo and harness on Christmas morning, a gift from a couple I love making love with.
The strap-on is an essential in the threesome toy box.
I often write about how important dildos are—the most basic, and probably the oldest sex toy, is incredibly versatile and useful for so many reasons.
The difference between a strap-on dildo and a dildo is that you wear one by strapping it on to yourself with a harness. The strap-on is generally for partner sex, not solo sex, while the dildo is great for both. The main benefit of the strap-on is that you have free hands, and the second is that it’s like having another cock at the party.
7 Ways to Use the Strap-On in Your Threesomes
1. Eye Candy
My new toy is a beautiful bright blue. All kinds of jewel tones are fun, but if you get off looking at a veiny, realistic throbbing cock, there are plenty of those too. A strap-on adds a visual component to sex, that both sexes can appreciate.
The hottest thing, for me, is simply to see her wearing a cock and using it.
2. Gender Bending Games
It’s not just a feast for the eyes, it can also be very erotic and empowering to change gender roles or experiment with role play that mixes up traditional genitalia or sex acts.
3. Double Her Pleasure
In FFM threesomes, engaging in a spitroast or double penetration of one woman at a time is incredibly sexy. I love wearing a strap-on while she straddles me, then our male lover penetrates her ass on top of me. Whoa.
Fore more ideas read FFM Threesome: Double Penetration with a Strap-On.
4. The Energizer Bunny
Give your cock a rest so that you don’t wear out or come before the party’s over. A guy can wear a strap-on too to keep up with the double action and give his dick a break.
The strap-on is also handy if you’re experiencing erection troubles, whether it’s because you have a limited libido or just threesome nerves. You don’t have to miss out on satisfying her every whim!
5. Bi Heaven
Experiencing the act of penetrating a woman is very powerful. I can enjoy this with a dildo too, but there is something psychologically and physically fulfilling about playing this out with my body. My hands are free to touch her.
6. The Joy of Pegging
A strap on means we can fuck you too. We can do it one at a time, or both wear a strap-on and take turns. It’s an amazing sensation to penetrate a man.
For a variety of pegging positions see Strap-Ons: Three Ways for Your Three-ways.
7. Size Training
A strap-on can be used to play with different sized dildos, working her up to something enormous. A variety of strap-on cocks in different shapes and sizes are available for just this purpose. Tease her first with something small and as she gets more aroused, work up to a huge cock. Your dick is fun, but dildos let us experiment with a wide variety of sizes in one session.
This concept can also be used on your ass!
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