Some people are not into what we sex workers like to call The Lifestyle. And that’s cool. Not everyone has to always go all the way and give everything to their pleasures and hobbies.
Some people were meant to do sex work and wild stuff for a career, and some people only want to do it for a few months before they go back to school, while they’re in their twenties (or insert wild period), or before they settle down. And nobody says they can’t go back and forth.
But the reality is that not every fantasy is meant to be a full-time commitment. And neither is every relationship.
I have some situations that are only destined, planned, or allowed to happen under particular circumstances with particular people for specific reasons. It can’t happen without money sometimes, and it can’t happen without being at a certain friend’s place, and it can’t happen unless it’s a special occasion that we’re celebrating.
Are You The Exception to Someone’s Rule?
Some situations only happen when the sexiest stars in the sky align and everyone’s mood is just right.
Everyone makes choices of only doing certain things with certain people, myself included. I do not very often play with men, but I occasionally do when it’s for a specific emotional or physical connection that aligns with my nuanced needs and detailed desires in the moment of passion.
I have a guy out there who is the only person in the world who I have done a variety of things with sexually, along with his supremely voluptuous and sacred wife. They are both very special people to me, and we have unique and amazing threesomes together. They are sex professionals with gifted bodies and minds, and we have all taken our passions to places I have rarely seen in my sexual travels.
This couple is a rare exception to the rules of most of my poly relationships, and they are sexually bonded to me in ways that I can’t begin to describe. Just know that we will continue to do things at threesome parties and orgies that would blow people’s minds. But I digress, this isn’t just about me!
We all have rare exceptions that we make for that special threesome with those special people? Do you have any? Here are some exceptions you may venture into.
5 Sexual Exceptions – For the Right Person
1. Bisexual Connections
So many people have that one person who makes them bend the boundaries of sex they will explore. You don’t have to be gay to touch and pleasure another man or vice versa. Many people try topping or bottoming or being a lipstick lesbian only once in their life. Don’t knock it til you try it. Maybe a couple times, even!
Read: 5 Tips for a Man’s First MMF Threesome
2. Kinky Roleplaying
There are a variety of reasons why couples want to act out kinky roles, whether it’s trust, fetish, fear, infatuation, or something beyond one’s scope. But yes, there are many people who want to play submissive and require a dom or domme to make it happen. If only one dominant does it all for you, then get your freak on!
Read: Kinky Role Play Scenes for Threesome Sex
3. Anal Sex
This takes a discussion or two and some health protocol checks before this can go down, but some people can and will only do anal play with a special person, whether because of attraction, ability, or connection! It’s a sensitive subject, and people can share their backhole with whoever they choose!
4. Cuckold Voyeur
I had a client who dressed up in a skirt and stockings, then watched me have ravenous sex with his wife on a hotel bed while he sat in the corner. It was spectacular. I have a special relationship with that married couple, and it’s rare that we all get together to set up this scene, but it goes down. Who knows, you may end up being that man in a hotwifing or cuckold relationship—enjoy!
5. Kissing
This is very much a thing sex workers deal with. They might have threesomes where they can’t kiss either of the primary partners involved, as it is seen as too intimate. They may be told to only use tongue with one person or to kiss parts of the body, but not the lips which has its own complete set of values and reasons behind it.
I could go on, but I’ll stop here and wish you well on your sexy, merry way!
But before I go, let me remind you, whether you are the person not allowed to do one or two things in a threesome, or you are the only person allowed to do a special intimate activity in a threesome, honor the boundaries and bliss within them!
Kisses and hugs,
Addi Stewart
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