Planning a threesome means finding three schedules that have free time at the same time—tricky enough. But when one or two of that threeway menstruate, aiming for just the right the evening free of unexpected monthly visitors can be a pipe dream.
Even with careful planning, any woman’s menstrual cycle can change—arrive earlier than anticipated, go longer than expected, visit soon after disappearing, and any number of annoying variations.
But you can still have a threesome if one or both gals are menstruating. Here’s how to proceed.
Face the facts of life.
In fantasies, sex is perfect, hot, and strangely lacking in biological realities. Guys who can’t manage a single push-up are warrior gods with stamina for days. Women don’t menstruate, lactate, urinate, and don’t have a single stretch mark or bunion.
But in real life, there are viruses, conceptions, limitations, and periods. If you accept the inevitable earthiness of real-life sex, you’ll be less shattered when Mother Earth makes an appearance at one of her ceremonies.
Go with the flow.
Pardon the predictable pun, but I couldn’t resist it! Be adaptable when it comes to sex. The more versatile and understanding you are, the more enjoyable sex will be.
If you’re able to roll with the punches and have different sex than planned as circumstances dictate, you won’t have to go without.
Practice open communication.
Sometimes women can be shy to talk about their periods. You can help by being direct and forward, but don’t take over her narrative or attempt to school her on how to experience her period.
Assure her that you are more than willing to communicate and work around the issue in ways that are best for her.
For some women, leaving panties on works just fine, and participating is still exciting. Others feel super horny and want to be a part of things as usual, provided no one is squeamish about a little blood. At other times, a woman can feel totally turned off or sick and will want to cancel. It will be different for different women, and different for the same woman on different days of her cycle.
Change the way you play.
Maybe gorging on vagina isn’t going to happen this afternoon after all. So what? Maybe that just means it’s your turn, and it’s time for the dick-licking session of your life.
You can incorporate a woman’s voyeurism in a threesome when she’s not into taking dick herself. Let her enjoy watching the other two players while she explodes inside, or touches herself, however she is comfortable.
You can all make out and only get half naked. You can let breasts take center stage this time. You can role play a hard-to-get character, or she can dominate the others without taking off her pants.
Proceed with imagination.
Having a period doesn’t automatically mean no sex. It only means that if the woman doesn’t feel like proceeding full on, or if the other partners aren’t comfortable.
If everyone is still good to go, what’s stopping you? The taboo can make things hot. You can play vampire games. You can ignore it’s even there. The options are limitless.
Just help her be more comfortable by keeping a clean shower and lots of towels on hand, and using old sheets. Using a shower curtain under sheets is a trick for any kind of sex that might be messy.
Enjoy!
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