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How to Use Porn in a Threesome

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Most people see porn as a solo activity, a dirty little secret that is never talked about. But c’mon folks, now that it’s so widely and easily available, isn’t it time we watch together, or at least bring it into the conversation.

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I’m always interested in what my partners watch because it gives me a window into their private fantasies, fetishes, and desires. Knowing what someone is into helps you to plan and surprise lovers by bringing scenes to life.

Watching porn as a couple can be a great addition to the relationship, but let’s look how three partners can use sex videos to their advantage when planning their next threesome.

Ways to Use Porn in Threesomes

  1. Explore individually or as a couple before you meet for sex. Most of you probably already do this, but do you really think about what you’re watching and what your motivation is? Think about what it is about your selections that turns you on the most.
  2. Talk about the porn you like and don’t like. This is not only a fun discussion to have, but it can bring about some titillating conversation that can be used to build anticipation before a group encounter.
  3. Take turns sharing your favorite porn videos or outtakes. For some this will be easy, and for others more challenging. And remember, just because watching something turns someone on, it doesn’t mean they want to act it out verbatim.
  4. Share your hard and soft limits. Porn sex isn’t like real life sex, let’s get that straight. Rather than be used as an education tool, it should merely be used for inspiration and arousal.
  5. Be flexible when playing a role. Maybe both ladies want to play the horny housewife, or everyone wants a turn at acting out a dominant role. Going outside your comfort zone can be one of the most exciting things to do in a threesome.
  6. Make your own porn. This might sound like a stretch as having all three participants consent can be challenging, but if you do… the memories you will have, not to mention fun!

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