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Real Advice from Threesome Sexperts

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If you started the year off right with a smokin’ hot three-way, don’t cross it off your bucket list quite yet. Who said all good things must come to an end? What if this was just the first step into a long life of two babes in your bed?

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Instead of quoting advice columnists, sex counsellors, or even motivational masters, I thought the best place to find out how it’s done might be with the men who have them.

Think Horny Thoughts

“Yes, I’m sure all guys do think about sex. But those visualization techniques that too many call wishful thinking are really important. Not just idly fantasizing about seeing the twins next door naked, but vivid, waking dream fantasies.

Imagine what you’ll say and do—dream up a plan, not just an orgasm. I’ve actually trained my fantasies into brainstorming solution sessions. It’s a win-win situation—I get to relieve pent up horniness, and come out ahead with ideas for how to bring these dirty dreams to life.” – Jake, 25

Take an Acting Class

“It was a summer drama class my girlfriend thought would be fun, and I found it it freeing to act away certain character traits like being shy. I didn’t go on to work at our local Shakespeare stage, but I found some great techniques that work.

In any situation now, I ask myself: If you were a successful person, how would you act or react to this matter? If you were a more confident person, what would your first step be? If you were rich…? It’s a fun game that removes us from our own traps.

Breaking it down helps me do what that person would do. He would look people in the eye and sit straight. He would give his full attention. Just this technique—not looking away, not losing eye contact and shifting nervously—has helped me get a job and more dates!

In that drama camp my girlfriend met a big blonde who propositioned us, and I didn’t want to mess it up.

What would a confident person do? He would look her in the eyes, he would put his arm around his girlfriend so she would feel secure and not threatened. He would let her make the decision while noticing how beautiful they were together. She said yes and became part of a regular threesome!” – Malik, 38

Be a Better Listener

What does every woman want? They want to be listened to.

I set myself apart by doing what no one other man does—listen. I listen to what turns her on, what kind of guy she likes. When she says sense of humor, I don’t show off my big dick or wallet. When she says she wants someone to listen, I be that guy.

In threesomes, a woman wants to feel secure. I give her most of the attention during the first threesome, and give her a chance to relax and get into it. 

I tell her I’d love to play again, but I’ll wait until she wants to. When she shares her thoughts about our experience, I put down the video game and listen carefully. It’s very simple guys, very simple.” – Dave, 27

What threesome secrets or advice can you share? Please let us know in the comments!

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