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Signs a Threesome Might Go Down at a Party

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Ever been at a party only to later wonder whether you were missing, or misreading, signals that a threesome was afoot?

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Don’t let it happen again! Here are a few things to look out for, so you don’t miss another chance to get naked with more than one hottie!

Two girls are putting on a show for you.

You see two attractive women sitting together super close. Whenever you look over at them, they’re both looking over at you. And then they touch each other’s hair, or move closer, or they caress, or even kiss.

You might think they’re girlfriends or about to get lucky with each other, but think about it: if that was the case, they’d be oblivious of your existence.

If they’re smiling at you while touching each other, I suggest you walk over and introduce yourself or send the next round of drinks their way.

Your girlfriend is really into another dude.

Some women are naturally more flirty than others, and every couple has different boundaries for what’s acceptable.

A confident man enjoys the fact that his lady attracts attention, and it keeps him on his toes. But if the attention she seems to be giving and getting from this guy are different than normal, pay attention to what is going on.

A man’s first reaction is usually that his position is vulnerable and he’s got competition. But if she’s not hiding her flirtation, then she’s not flirting with cheating! She’s looking for a response out of both of you.

If you have recently discussed having an MMF threeway or if she’s fantasized about them a lot, ask her.

“Are you thinking what I’m thinking?” is a neutral question that can make the picture come in clearer.

A couple you meet pays you a lot of attention, or mentions repeatedly that they are poly or sexually adventurous.

It’s common to talk to both singles and couples at a party or nightclub. People love to meet other people with whom to share their common interests. Sometimes that common interest is sex.

It can be tricky for a couple to find a unicorn, or someone they’re both attracted to for a threesome. So couples who are into threeways might be on the lookout for sex partners the same way singles are.

If you sense a really comfortable energy with a couple, and the guy doesn’t seem too jealous that his wife keeps touching your arm and saying flirty little things, remain on high alert!

If they mention sex, or being poly or adventurous, you might casually drop in there something about being sexually open.

Don’t mess it up by saying “I’d love to bend your wife over the bathroom sink” unless you want to leave with a black eye. Instead, wait for an appropriate segue, and then say something like, “I’m not attached right now because I’m enjoying dating different women and couples too.”

If the signs were wrong, nothing is lost and maybe you’ll plant the idea for them!

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