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Solutions for Embarrassing Threesome Situations

Man on Edge of Bed with Dissatisfied Lover

Threesome sex—what can go wrong? If there are all kinds of unexpected detours or embarrassing situations for two, they can be amplified with three in bed.

Here are four common embarrassing scenarios that guys like you experience in threesomes, and the best ways to deal.

4 Embarrassing Situations in Threesomes

1. You Come too Fast

When a fantasy comes true, the last thing you want is to cross the finish line before the party starts. Unfortunately, novelty, intensity, visual cues, and all that extra stimulation can mean you explode too fast, especially if threesomes are new or rare.

The fix: Jerk off before your date, thinking of all the delicious things that will happen to you. This can slow things down when the real action starts.

If it’s too late—you already came—don’t hang your head in shame. Laugh it off with an acknowledgement that you were super excited. The show is not over just because you had an orgasm. If you stop stressing it and get busy with the pussy on your plate, your dick will be hard again in no time.

2. You Can’t Get It Up

You’re so aroused that you should have a rock-hard boner that never dies, but dicks don’t always cooperate with desire. You might be nervous or shy, have body issues, have performance anxiety, or be overconfident, and now it’s limp or half mast.

The fix: Take the focus off your cock. Admit to your lovers that you’re a bit gun shy, and then concentrate on pleasuring your partners with your hands and mouth, or enjoy prolonged making out and sensual touching.

3. You Can’t Deal with Another Man

You’ve fantasized about watching a woman take dick in every hole, but now that a real living man is here naked and fucking her, you can’t cope.

You understand that jealousy is natural, even when the scene itself is a major turn on. It’s also natural to be reluctant to be hands on with another man, even if he figures prominently in your jerk-off fantasies and in the porn you love.

The fix: Prioritize HER pleasure. You can accept your mixed emotions and acknowledge them while recognizing that the important part of the story is not your insecurity but her enjoyment. If you focus on her needs, you’ll be better able to resolve your own desire.

4. You’re not Attracted to One Lover

It’s that rare event—you’re finally propositioned by two women at a party, or your wife surprises you on your birthday with her best friend.

Problem is, you just aren’t that into one of the ladies.

The fix: Go with the flow, if you can. No one should do anything they don’t want to, of course, but you don’t have to be equally attracted to both women to enjoy a threesome. All women are beautiful in their own way, and this might be an opportunity to expand your horizons.

If your wife is really attracted to the woman she chose, does it matter that she’s a six in your eyes? If you love curvy women and this one’s rail thin, or you usually date women in your own culture, why not try something new and see where it takes you?

If you’re turned off because she has a controlling personality or bad hygiene or a meth problem, that’s different. But if we’re just talking minor preferences, I say take a walk on the wild side—you might like it.

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