A list of threesome rules could potentially go on forever, because no two threesomes look alike. You could be partaking in an MMF or FFM threeway, joining a couple or letting a single join you and your partner, enjoying vanilla or kinky sex, having sex with friends or total strangers. These are just some of the various factors that can influence how you determine what rules may apply.
So instead of exhausting us both with an infinite list, I’ll give you my top three threesome rules.
Talk about Boundaries
There’s nothing worse than getting into a sexual threeway and someone crossing a line while you’re dick is hard, or your pussy wet. It’s a hot mess that is difficult to come back from.
Boundaries and limits should be discussed before any clothes come off. Maybe you do this while sipping cocktails at a bar before heading to your hotspot, or maybe you meet up days before over coffee. If you’re opening up your relationship to a third you’ll want to have a discussion around individual do’s and don’ts, as well as expectations.
Practice Safe Sex
You would think this would be a no brainer, but hey, sometimes people are so caught up in the fantasy that lay ahead that they forget to stock up on supplies and are scrambling for that last condom or two they thought they had.
If anything, always go a little overboard. It’s better to have more of what you need than less, always. Have a few different kinds of condoms, brands and sizes. Buy a couple bottles of lube, hand sanitizer, and anything else your partners may want. Don’t be shy to ask, especially if you are hosting a threesome.
Be Discreet
Threesomes are exciting, and you may want to tell the whole world if it’s your first time in a threeway. But, please hold your tongue, especially if you have just met one or both of the partners you just had fun with.
There are many reasons to be discreet about sexual trysts, and others may have reasons other than you do. The ideal situation, if you like to relive your sexual adventures, is to share a threesome with a lover who you can lie in bed with after the fact to discuss and detail the goings-on of your recent sex experience.
What threesome rules do you follow?
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