This post is for guys who are in a relationship and fantasize about threesomes. If you’re like most men, this is something you’ve thought about more than once.
It’s a sexual activity that is rife with potential problems, and the biggest one is jealousy. Can you really handle watching another man with your girlfriend? Would she be able to cope with seeing another woman give you a blowjob? Do you worry that one of you might develop feelings for your third?
It’s okay to feel jealous sometimes, but within reason. So let’s discuss how to keep jealousy from ruining a threesome experience, or worse, your relationship.
Keep it a fantasy. There’s a lot of planning that goes into making a threesome actually happen, and it can be a real headache. And most often the reality rarely lives up to the expectations of those involved. Many people have fantasies that they would never act out on, and this can be one of those for you. There’s plenty of threesome porn to satisfy.
Avoid the MMF threesome. If you think watching your girlfriend or wife have sex with another man might make you crazy, you may opt for the more ubiquitous FFM arrangement. The cuckold fantasy for first timers without a lot of thought and discussion beforehand can be extremely challenging in the moment.
Go outside your relationship. You can avoid jealous feelings if you join a couple or two singles for group sex. This might be the answer if your girlfriend is absolutely never going to want a threesome. Of course this will only work if she gives you permission to go outside the relationship—hello, polyamory!
Discuss boundaries and expectations beforehand. This goes for the MMF, FFM, or an outside-the-relationship threesome. If everyone involved understands everyone else’s limits, you are less likely to see red because lines will be respected and not crossed.
Jealousy sucks for relationships regardless of threesome fantasies. If jealousy is a constant topic of conversation in your quarrels with your girlfriend, deal with it before you engage in any type of group sex.
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