Submissive men love to be dominated by strong confident women in the bedroom, and sometimes outside the bedroom. Often the term “she wears the pants” describes a arrangement where both parties are content to carry on with their position in the relationship.
Are you this kind of man?
Do you want to double your fantasy or pleasure by engaging in group sex with two dominant women or dommes? If you’re already in a union with a dominant woman, you’re halfway there—you just need to find one more. If you’re flying solo, it will be a bit trickier but not impossible.
Let’s look at the different ways you can make your fantasy of a two domme threesome come to life.
Tips for Threesomes with Two Dommes
1. Let Your Partner Choose
If you already love to submit to the woman you’re with, why not let her find an interested third. She may want your input and that’s fine, but a surprise can be fun and scary in a good way.
She might pick a friend who’s had her eye on you (not recommended unless you are part of a larger kink community) or she may go a more discreet route and browse online for a suitable match.
Letting her take charge of finding a femdom third is the first way you can submit in this scenario, before anything actually happens.
Where to start? See our list of the Best Threesome Dating Sites.
2. Give Up the Reins
How much say you will have in things depends on the nature of your D/s relationship. Most couples who play around with these roles, keep it to the bedroom but there are some who embody their D/s roles 24/7. In the latter type of arrangement, it’s likely you know your place very well. But for others, you will want to discuss boundaries and limits beforehand.
What are you willing to let two dominant women do to you? Whose fantasies will be played out, and are you willing to push your limits to satisfy a lover’s?
Read:7 Boundaries to Discuss before Threesomes
3. Engage in Role Play
Many couples who love D/s roles act them out in simple to elaborate role plays. When you have three, you can be that much more creative.
Would you like to be tied up and interrogated by two dominant female police officers? How about kissing the stilettoed toes of two dominatrixes in leather, ready to paddle you for the slightest infraction. Maybe you play a sickly patient to an authoritative doctor and nurse duo who need to poke and prod you for your own well being.
Read: Kinky Role Play Scenes for Threesomes
4. Serve and Obey
Not all threesomes are sexual. In fact, not being able to enjoy yourself through touch or orgasm is often a way to submit. Chastity play and orgasm denial has a strong following in the kink community.
Your two threesome dommes might just want you to wait on them hand and foot, perhaps in the nude. I know having a boy toy to order around is always a fantasy for many of my girlfriends. Insolence will not be tolerated and will be offset with a little humiliation or punishment, which you might love if you are a true submissive and act out on purpose.
Read: 6 Femdom Threesome Ideas
What does your threesome fantasy with two dominant women look like?
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