If you’re actively using threesome dating sites and apps, or curious and ready to try them, you need a threesome dating profile.
Profiles that are tailored to the apps you’re using and the results you want work better and filter out the stuff you aren’t looking for in love and lust.
Here are a few tips to remember when creating a dating profile, as a single or couple, when looking for group sex encounters.
Have fun.
Don’t stress about casual dating. Show a few points about your life, your desires, or your adventures that show a light heart.
Women want to enjoy themselves when they date and hook up, not feel like they’re going to the doctor’s or for an algebra exam.
Be direct.
We don’t want to keep an Excel spreadsheet to figure out whether we might be a suitable match, so don’t be overly detailed and demanding, and don’t be vague either.
Tell it like it is, listing only the most important things and a few interesting ones.
State what or who you are looking for. A man and a woman? Two redheaded chicks? Another guy for your wife’s birthday? Someone of your own culture? Go on, say so.
Get over yourself.
You might desperately want to convey that you are God’s gift to women, that you’re hot as hell and are great in the sack. Maybe you are all of those things, but think about how you can share that without coming across as an egotistical louse.
No one wants to have a threeway with a guy who likes flexing his muscles in the mirror.
Make your limits clear.
If you’re only looking for someone kinky, or if your girlfriend doesn’t want to compete with another blonde, make that clear. Be polite and courteous, but don’t feel the need to be politically correct or that you have explain or justify your desires.
Tell it like it is.
Answer the questions that women or couples will have, but won’t want to ask. Let us know that your place is clean and comfortable and private, and if it’s not, tell us that you have roommates and want to meet at our place or a hotel.
Some of us will call you faster if we know you have four dogs, either because we are animal lovers or because we have allergies. Being honest and up front is the only way to find the people you’re looking for.
Don’t be afraid of your flaws.
Don’t dwell on your imperfections, but don’t hide them either. We are all real people with real bodies and real lives. It’s important to know what’s what.
There’s a lot of debate about how much to divulge in dating profiles, but remember that hookups can turn into relationships or regular threesome arrangements. You might not think “going through a divorce” or “battling cancer” or “tired of dieting and embracing my middle-age spread” are selling points, but reality within fantasy is very attractive to most of us.
Use your discretion when deciding which things should be in your profile, which should be disclosed during preliminary chatting or first dates, and which things should be saved for serious relationships.
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