If you aren’t lucky enough to currently be in an open relationship with a bodacious babe who loves threesomes, you might be interested in meeting couples who are looking for a third. Online dating makes your search that much easier when it comes to group sex hookups.
There are many married couples, who swing or live the poly lifestyle, using niche dating sites to find singles who are keen to join their fun. Use these tips to be the chosen one.
Tips for Hookups with Couples
Join a niche dating site. Finding group sex on mainstream dating sites is very difficult, but a niche site like PolyamoryDate.com or CouplesDating.com caters to singles and couples who want to engage in threesomes and more.
Write a specific profile. Often people don’t put the effort into making a standout profile, and it’s their loss. Choose photos that show different sides of you and fill out every section with detail. Also be sure to express exactly what you are looking for it, to save yourself and others time.
Send messages with thought. Make sure to read entire profiles before sending a message that you are interested in a meeting or hookup. Cater a first message to things you’ve read in a profile and not just a “Hey, how’s it going?”
Know your limits and boundaries. Fantasize about what your possible threesome is like to know what you are willing and not willing to engage in. If a woman pulls out a strap-on, are you going to let her ram you from behind? Would you let another man give you a blowjob? Discuss your boundaries before you meet.
Know your place. When getting involved with a married couple, you need to know what their deal is. Are they looking for a boy toy for her? Does the husband just want to watch? Will this be a one-off hookup, or is there a possibility of a regular threesome arrangement?
Keep your expectations in check. If the sex turns out to be the bomb, watch for developing feelings. You don’t want to go falling in love with someone’s wife, unless there is a true poly relationship there, and they are open to the idea off something more than a hookup.
Be open to new things. Married couples with open relationships are often into more than just group sex. They might have a tickle trunk full of toys and like to engage in threesome role plays. Use these opportunities to explore your own kinks and fetishes.
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