For a lot of dudes, the pinnacle of three-way sex is watching your girlfriend getting it good from behind.
Seeing a woman taking a pounding by another man is one of the hottest sights on earth—so hot that the vast majority of straight porn is exactly that. The girl-on-girl action scenes are hot, but watching her fucking a man is a major turn on.
It’s understandable that landing a yes from the wife about an MMF threesome is like winning the lottery, until she reminds you that it’s not all about you watching her and him—she would like to see you taking some action from him too!
You may have to put your cock into his mouth if you want to watch him use it to penetrate her pussy. Here’s how to relax and enjoy the ride.
Resolve to go with the flow.
If you’re new to the MMF threesome, three-way action, or to same-sex play, remember it’s just an adventure. You’re experimenting. You might not like everything. You might like it a lot.
It’s for HER, so it’s hot.
It might not do much for you at all, but if you can get comfortable and get into it, it’s really something you’re doing for her. You get turned on watching her, and she gets turned on by watching you guys.
Decide on your boundaries in advance, and communicate openly with both parties.
There’s no reason to go nervously into a scenario and hope for the best. Don’t be nervous waiting for the right occasion to tell him—or her—what you need or what you don’t want. Talk in advance.
There’s nothing wrong with saying, “Look, Frank, I’ve been really excited about the chance to watch my wife taking it. It’s something that really turns me on. This time, she’s hoping for a little eye candy of her own, and I’m a bit nervous about it. Is it something you’ve experienced? Any tips?”
If we treat our partners as partners, rather than the opposition, it’s amazing how comfortable we can be with new ways to play.
Remember not to invest too much meaning in whatever transpires.
Don’t read too much into your experience. Some dudes worry about liking it, and some worry about not liking it. Lose the pressure.
One friend found himself fantasizing about guy-on-guy blowjobs afterwards, and was really worried about it. I reminded him that EVERYONE jerks off to their latest turn on, and that he probably did too, to other turn ons before this one. A lot of sex is about novelty. Enjoy it.
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