A classic example of dating multiple women is the wife-mistress model. Essentially the wife is the girl you always come home to. She is the one you will never leave, and the one who enjoys official status in your life. She knows your friends, has met your family, and is actively planning your future.
The wife is also the one you lie to about other affairs. She’s the one who is always in the dark about where you go, and what you do when you’re gone. Truthfully, most women aren’t stupid and may just be turning a blind eye to your activities for their own reasons…but this is a conversation for another time.
The mistress, meanwhile, knows perfectly well that you have a wife, and that you won’t leave her (hopefully). She also knows that she is expendable, and that if she demands a bigger role in your life that she will probably lose. However, she is the beneficiary of your active attention, your time, and your money.
Sometimes mistresses agitate to become wives. A man can string a lady along for years with a promise that this will happen, even though it likely won’t. Even if a man leaves his wife and makes the mistress his wife, it is likely that he will seek out a new mistress. You can never control a serial cheater for long.
Getting one girlfriend is hard. Once you have one lady, getting another one becomes easier because the sexual pressure is off. You can flirt and hang out, and it doesn’t matter at all if you get laid or not because you know you got it at home if you need it. And if you want to avoid cheating, you can open your relationship up for threesomes or swinging.
More than this, the more women you’re dating, the harder it is for any one to control your time. This makes you more mysterious, and ladies love a good mystery. It makes them feel like they’re chasing you, and enticing change from the norm.
I’ve started closing my bedroom door, or leaving it open just a crack when girls come over. This fascinates them because they are dying to see what is in that room that they aren’t allowed to look at. It makes it way more special when they finally get there because they feel like they have gotten into some fancy club. You just have to make sure your pad is female friendly.
I think this approach works, in general, for life. If you make it seem like your company is a fancy club then a lot of people will jump through hoops to be that VIP.
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