Are you ready to make your threesome fantasy a reality? Or are you still mustering up the courage to bring it up to your wife or girlfriend? Either way, it’s a good idea to think about how it could affect your current relationship.
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There are many ways that bringing a third into the bedroom can enhance an existing relationship, while there are other potential fallouts to consider. Use this checklist to evaluate you and your lady’s readiness for a threesome.
Couple’s Checklist for a Threesome
Excellent communication. Do you have an open and honest relationship? Are you unafraid of sharing ALL your feelings before and after sex? Jumping in without serious talk about what you both want or don’t want from a group sex experience, could be very damaging to your existing bond.
Sexual confidence. A threesome scenario is a ripe place for an insecure person’s worst nightmares to take place. It’s important for all involved to feel good about their bodies, their desires, and their skills going in.
Open-minded attitudes. So much can happen, with three different bodies and perspectives involved, that being open to changes in plans or expectations is necessary. If you’re too rigid in your beliefs about what a threesome should or shouldn’t be, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment.
Solid trust. Couples who think a threesome will fix a rocky relationship should think again. If you or your partner has cheated in the past, this could potentially open up old wounds. You both need to know that at the end of the threesome, you are each other’s number one.
Clear boundaries. Discuss these before even choosing your third. What do each of you want to get out of a threesome experience? Is your girlfriend willing to go down on another woman (if that’s part of your fantasy), and what are your hard limits when it comes to BDSM activities?
Love. At the end of the day, if you truly love one another, your relationship should be able to withstand a threesome gone wrong. And of course, if it goes right, it may be something you want to add as a regular staple to your sex life. Many couples go poly after their first threesome… and that lifestyle comes in many shapes and sizes.
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