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Tips for Open Relationships Looking for a Third

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Whether you’ve always been polyamorous or you’re ready to open up your relationship to others, online dating is your best bet when it comes to meeting singles and couples for hookups and group sex.

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Maybe you’re an experienced online dater or joining a dating site for the first time… either way, there’s always room to improve your chances of meeting compatible partners. Check out these tips for finding a threesome for you and your partner.

Steps to Find a Third for a Threesome

1. Join a site that caters to polyamory people or group sex. Mainstream dating sites just don’t have the same numbers of people interested in threesomes. It will save you a lot of time to use a niche site like PolyamoryDate.com or CouplesDating.com.

2. Discuss boundaries and expectations with your partner. If you’ve never had group sex, don’t just jump in. Talk about your individual desires, reasons for having a threesome, and your limits.

3. Create a couples profile and individual profiles. Write up your profiles together and have fun doing it! With three profiles you’ll increase your chances of meeting the right individual.

4. Be honest and transparent. You may think you should wait to meet someone in person before discussing a threesome possibility, but don’t. Get to the point, and you won’t be wasting anyone’s time.

5. Choose your third together. Before you message or reply to a message, consult with your partner. You may think X is the perfect third to join your party, but never speak for your partner.

6. Plan your threesome. Enough can’t be said about preparation for the big event. Take care when choosing the appropriate setting and time. Check out threesome planning tips on our site.

7. Discuss and evaluate before moving forward. Check in with your partner afterwards to talk about your experiences and whether you want to do it again, what you enjoyed, and what you would change.

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