If the word “cuck” seems to be on everyone’s lips, then “hotwife” is another one you might be hearing even more soon.
While the exciting fear and fantasy for guys about sharing their wife with other men is as old as the hills, the concept in practice or as a kink is having its heyday breakout.
A cuckold is a man who has been made a fool of or emasculated by the fact that his wife is sleeping with other men.
The term is from around 1250 AD and probably derives from the cuckoo bird, who laid her eggs in other birds’ nests. The implication of female adultery was that a man could not control his wife, or satisfy her. The female’s other lovers—her bulls—have more sexual stamina, are more attractive, or have larger penises.
A hotwife is a wife who is so hot that she attracts other men.
It’s a polyamorous arrangement between a couple where only the female sleeps around. She might have several other male lovers but returns home to her main partner.
Both cuckolding and hotwifing kinks can involve sexual experiences with all three players, but they don’t always.
What’s the difference between cuckolding and hotwifing?
As a fetish, the humiliation of being out-manned is essential to cuckolding.
Since the horny wife just isn’t fulfilled by her husband, who isn’t man enough to satisfy her, she has to mate with men with bigger cocks, more muscles, younger, richer—whatever it takes.
The cuck, mocked for not measuring up, is excited by the idea of his wife getting banged by more manly lovers.
A cuck might “get some” on the return of his wife—a pity fuck is more likely than unbridled lust. If he’s lucky, he gets the scraps.
More likely, he might be called in to help prep the bulls for his wife. He may be “forced” to arouse the waiting stable of males with his hands or mouth, and might be expected to watch or to clean up the male’s cum afterwards.
Hotwifing has a different psychology, wherein the male is incredibly secure.
He is so manly and secure he doesn’t have to feel jealousy. He knows he is the main, and no matter how many men desire and fuck his wife, she will always return to him.
The husband of a hotwife is turned on by the fact that every man wants her but can only have her on loan. He is faithful to his hotwife. He doesn’t need anyone but her. He is aroused by the idea of her fucking other men, then gets the last laugh as he fucks her at home.
He may participate in a threesome, or more often watch and enjoy. His presence reminds her lovers who is really boss.
Both practices involve a polyamorous woman, a monogamous man, and the arousal of sharing your wife with other guys.
The difference between the two is psychological. Cuckolding is a kink of denial, humiliation, submission, or sissification. Hotwifing is a kind of opposite—she’ll always belong to him alone, even if she has many lovers. She’s insatiable, and it’s a huge turn on to share her, knowing what he has is so hot that everyone wants a piece.
Though the psychology is very different around a similar sexual practice, the shared biology at its root is a key driver as well.
Just the thought of another male “sniffing around” a wife drives male animals into overdrive. Just thinking about it raises your libido, and the actual presence of another male around a woman makes guys perceive her as more attractive while your testosterone levels soar.
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