I don’t have all the sexual experience in the world, but I’m not a timid rookie either, haha. I consider myself a well-rounded, well-balanced individual—not too pushy, and not too shy. It’s worked VERY well for me.
I’ve seen my share of sexually untraditional situations involving multiple peoples, and it’s not easy to simplify choice and to quantify behavior. There are infinite variables between personalities, identities, alter-egos, and fantasy selves, as well as other influences such as drugs and alcohol. But I jest, and digress.
One thing I’ve noticed about threesomes or group sex encounters: there are usually people who take control, and people who concede control. Not often do they switch it up!
I am quite the fluid thinker and creator, so I honestly can say there are people and places that make me want to be silent and just watch them do their thing as I and others help them get there. There are also times where I know I have to be the leader of the pack, and inspire others to connect and be sexual together, and carry on the spirit of the intention to get naked and make something happen.
Not everyone has the ideas and fantasies and motivations to do stuff, just the willing intention. It’s like them having the money to go on vacation, but not knowing much about what to do in Paradise when they get there. Other people are very well educated on the ins and outs of Paradise, but aren’t capable of visiting it very often, due to reasons they’d rather not get into.
It’s great to like yourself enough to know who you are. Which type are you? Or can you do both?
Curious,
Addi Stewart
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