When you and a partner decide that your union is an open one, the best place to find thirds or secondary partners will be online.
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Whether you want to swing with other couples, have threesome sex, or enjoy secondary relationships, niche online dating sites are the place to start. A couple speciality sites are PolyamoryDate.com and CouplesDating.com.
Online Dating Benefits for Couplesc
You can create individual and couple profiles. Depending on what you and your partner are looking for, you have a good chance of finding it with multiple profiles. As a couple, you may be looking for FFM hookups, but maybe only one of you wants a secondary partner. Go wild and make a few profiles that are specific to both your needs. This approach will definitely increase your number of responses.
You can choose and vet new partners together. I always recommend a fun approach to online dating. Rejection is inherent and is much easier to brush off when your outlook remains positive. Browsing profiles with your partner (for you or both of you) can be a real hoot. This also works well if you have veto rules as part of your open arrangement.
You can take your time. Couples who are new to open relationships will find it’s a bit of a learning curve. You will learn fascinating things about yourselves and each other through the process. Don’t feel you have to meet up with the first person who strikes your fancy. Be choosy and discuss feelings and boundaries with your partner.
You can explore with more discretion. Going out to bars and clubs to find a third or second partner is flirting with your privacy, especially if you live in a small town. By using dating sites, you can wait until you feel comfortable to meet and arrange your hookups in neutral locations like hotels. If you decide on something regular you can share more as your comfort level increases.
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