The general rule of having sexy video footage or pictures: Don’t show anyone who isn’t involved or who doesn’t have permission to see. This is the basic law of the land as well as the rule of conduct for decent folks everywhere who don’t violate the boundaries of decency and morality.
Of course, some people don’t mind their recorded sex videos going public, and might have actually made them for others to see consciously, and openly. This is also a right we never want to take away, because as long as the sex is consensual and done by adults, then what is wrong with it? A civilized world is one where sexuality is more celebrated than violence, that’s what I always say.
So what happens in the case of a threesome getting caught on camera? Recording a threesome video can get a little more complicated, methinks. But at the end of the day, it’s still the same: Respect everyone involved!
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Making a Threesome Video & Maintaining Privacy
I know situations where there’s been more than three people involved in a sex tape. There could be four, five, nine… yes, it might be an orgy! And will everyone sign a 2257 compliant form to say they sign off to this video being shown in public, and prove that everyone is over eighteen, and that they were all sober and consenting adults? No, things won’t get THAT technical. Not unless you’re actually shooting a professional porn scene!
People SHOULD and hopefully WILL let it be known if they need to have their faces covered for their own reasons and motivations, possibly for work or what not. I’ve been in a threesome where a guy wore a Phantom of the Opera mask to cover his face because he was a school teacher and didn’t want any evidence of his identity to be shown on the internet… well, everything except his face!
The entirety of his nude body could be seen, and if anyone knew his body hair, or if he had any revealing tattoos or various other identifying features, then it wouldn’t matter if he was wearing a mask or not—they would be able to put it together, and then make a decision if they thought it was appropriate or not. Most teachers who are found out having any kind of normal sex life or extra-curricular sexual activity on the internet get their careers cut short.
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I had no problem working with him, and have never revealed his name or any details of who he is, so I think he’s still teaching. That being said, if you film or are in a film of multiple people having sex, please respect the privacy of everyone. Any orgy worth its weight in flesh will have the people talk to each other at the beginning or the end where everyone will discuss how they feel about showing the sex tape to friends.
Important decisions will be made in those conversations. If some people say no, then it should remain a private collectible for only those involved. If everyone is okay with it, then hey… you might have yourself a viral internet video—you never know! Ha ha, I’m just playing… sorta.
Having a recording of a threesome is something special and powerful and potentially dangerous, but it doesn’t have to be. Boundaries just need to be openly communicated. Which also can change at any time the people want. I made a porn video with a lover who was selling it online (with my consent) but after we broke up she chose to take it down. And I just had to comply. That’s all there is to it!
So be honest with those you make sex vids with, and be honest with yourself when you’re recording a threesome. It’s a double-edged sword that cuts lovely memories, but can also cut into future situations if not handled delicately. But I still say: make sex videos!
Have fun,
Addi Stewart
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